Inprofessional Posted May 27, 2015 Posted May 27, 2015 Person I'm thinking of is kind of all over the place. Often depressed and quiet, withdrawn. Likes talking about depressing things and can critique anything. Can point out the worst parts of any situation quite easily. He doesn't get a lot of pleasure out of life but doesn't want to (always) be alone. Being alone most of the time is ok, however. I'm wondering if someone like that could use those attributes to his advantage, and if so, where and how? The typical dating scene doesn't even appeal any more and the FemDoms aren't exactly forming a line. Cheers
Emilia Posted May 27, 2015 Posted May 27, 2015 You need to sort out the depression, you can't expect others to want to be around that and it's very emotionally draining to be around someone who is a downer all the time. Most don't want to.
ZA Dater Posted May 27, 2015 Posted May 27, 2015 Have you ever wondered why this person is like he is? Just an observation, being critical of things isn't a bad thing provided its balanced, I myself am heavily critical of things and am told I am overly negative but that is just me, I prefer to adopt a realistic viewpoint. How did I get like that. Simple, disappointments and lots of them made me realise its fine to be optimistic but only if there is a valid chance of the event upon which the optimism is based actually occurring. My suggestion is to try and understand him a bit better, find out why he is in this space because then you can figure out how to get him out of it.
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