david_rochelle Posted May 26, 2015 Posted May 26, 2015 I rejected this girl back in October 2014 when she asked me to be her boyfriend, as I thought it was too soon because we had only met 2 months prior to her asking me to be serious. However, I realized I genuinely like her and contacted her soon after on facebook. The thing is, I was off and on with my ex at the time. I somewhat rejected her again and she didn't contact me since. Its been 2 months of no contact but I keep having serious dreams about us. In the first one, we were making love and it felt so real in the dream (we never had sex before). And just last night, I dreamt of me on my way to pick her up from her place. She was texting me in the dream asking me questions about me as I was driving ovet to see her and she was getting ready at her place. The thing is, I haven't had dreams of anyone before. Not even of my ex. I really like her but I feel she is hurt and never wants to hear from me again. Do these recurring dreams mean anything? I've literally dreamt of her at least 5 times since then and I never dream.
LadyDeadpool Posted May 26, 2015 Posted May 26, 2015 Just be persistent. If she sees you keep trying to set up a date/start a relationship with her she'll realise that you are serious about her. Your dreams are probably an indication that you are at the very least infatuated with her. I couldn't tell from your post but I'll say it anyway, make sure you are definatley off with your ex and completely single. The last thing you want do do is try to convince his girl to date you if your ex is just waiting to pounce. You don't need that drama. So to sum up, make sure you're single and don't give up. Once she sees that you are taking the time to get with her, and not just chasing tail, she'll be more open to starting a relationship with you. Oh and it also helps to apologize for your earlier brush off. Tell her why you turned her down and that you understand her reluctance, but you really do want to give it a shot.
kendahke Posted May 26, 2015 Posted May 26, 2015 People in your dreams are supposed to signify an aspect of yourself. I think that unless you are 100% certain you want to enter into something with her, you need to leave her alone. You've shot her down twice already; she may not be interested in being shot down a third time. Yeah, apologize, but do it with no expectations of an outcome you want. Do it because what you did to her was messed up and you need to apologize for it.
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