foolinlove79 Posted May 26, 2015 Posted May 26, 2015 I hate the ups and downs you go through after a break up. Sometimes im ok and other times it hits me that i wont see them again. Im sure we all go through the same thing but its very draining. I think silly thoughts too like what if i never meet anyone else? And then even the thought of having to get to know someone again. Getting close and caring is terrifying. How to move on? I dont know.
Ariess10 Posted May 26, 2015 Posted May 26, 2015 I hate the ups and downs you go through after a break up. Sometimes im ok and other times it hits me that i wont see them again. Im sure we all go through the same thing but its very draining. I think silly thoughts too like what if i never meet anyone else? And then even the thought of having to get to know someone again. Getting close and caring is terrifying. How to move on? I dont know. it's nice to see I'm not the only one that feels like this.. Hang in there I'm sure we will be just fine
xosillypenguinxo Posted May 26, 2015 Posted May 26, 2015 I am going through the same thing right now. I know exactly how you feel. It feels like you'll never feel the way you felt with your ex again, but you will. It may also feel like you'll never feel better but time heals everything. Just try to remember a time in your life when you thought you would never be okay again-looking back, it doesn't seem that painful anymore right? Believe me, this will pass. When you find the right person, it'll make you realize why you had to go through so many heartbreaks to find that one person.
Tone Loc Posted May 26, 2015 Posted May 26, 2015 Yeah it's hard man. You become very conflicted, you start doubting yourself and second guessing your choices and decisions. But you must remind yourself of the reality, whatever that reality is for you. Don't lose sight of what really happened. Thoughts and feelings come and go, but the facts remain. We all have to accept the situation. When a relationship is dead, a lot of the time it's truly dead and there's no hope of reviving it, and we must accept this painful reality. Acceptance paves the way for moving on. You will never move on if you don't accept that your relationship is over. The break up was the final chapter in your relationship, the final nail in the coffin. I'm not sure about the circumstances of your break up, so this may or may not apply to you. Generally speaking, if you've been dumped, for whatever reason, then you really must muster up the strength to ACCEPT the situation and TRY to move on. No one is expecting you to be happy straight away, no one expects you to forget your ex in a week. But you should be taking the right steps to make sure you're moving forward. This includes strict no contact, and taking care of yourself. Your life doesn't stop simply because your relationship ends. Life will and does go on. Might take some time, but you WILL get through this. Remind yourself that this is temporary. Sunny days wouldn't be special if it wasn't for rain.
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