selfish ?

[lawson]

just a quickie ? talking to the wife about things and discussing our sex life(she's just turned 50 but looks late 30s as she gets keeping told )she is defo not an old 50 yr old , and iam 55 but still very young and active at heart I suggested once a week and maybe foreplay twice a week . her instant comment was "get lost far to much a week ", is it me being selfish

[cocorico]

just a quickie ? talking to the wife about things and discussing our sex life(she's just turned 50 but looks late 30s as she gets keeping told )she is defo not an old 50 yr old , and iam 55 but still very young and active at heart I suggested once a week and maybe foreplay twice a week . her instant comment was "get lost far to much a week ", is it me being selfish

 

Different people have different needs. If I was limited to only that I'd be climbing the walls. Seems awfully little, to me.

[Tread Carefully]

I don't think it makes you selfish, I think it makes her selfish.

[La.Primavera]

When you say foreplay twice a week do you mean oral sex?

 

You might need to clarify that because I assume that is what she meant when she said;

 

"get lost far to much a week "

 

Just a thought.

[OldRover]

just a quickie ? talking to the wife about things and discussing our sex life(she's just turned 50 but looks late 30s as she gets keeping told )she is deco not an old 50 yr old , and iam 55 but still very young and active at heart I suggested once a week and maybe foreplay twice a week . her instant comment was "get lost far to much a week ", is it me being selfish

 

 

Heck, I'd go nuts, too... and I'm older that you and so is my mate. We do think young and act so, and 3 or 4 times a week isn't too much. Sometimes twice a day... like today, a good way to celebrate the holiday.

 

Absolutely, once a week is NOT enough. However, foreplay is something that could be done daily, with or without a climax.