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I've had 4 relationships, 3 in college, 1 in HS. All of them, I was their first boyfriend, including the most recent, a 23/24 year old. The theory I have is simple: a first relationship at any age will be hard to process, but with increasing difficulty with age. In addition, it's easy to get GIGS out of your first relationship, because you don't have anything to compare to.

 

Question: no matter how well you treat the other person in their first relationship, they'll get gigs. Will they come back?

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The person that gets GIGS will rarely come back. They may be open to it, but in most cases, it is the dumpee that makes first contact in a rekindling that lasts.

 

In all other cases, the time apart is too short, and the reconciliation usually doesn't stick.

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