How to get back your ex after breaking up and he's blocking you on whatsapp and calls

[milkgreentea]

Hi!

 

My boyfriend(ex) and i dated for about 1yr7months already and recently we just broke up(about one week)

This is the second time we broke up but we did reconcile back tgt from the first breakup but this time i'm lost and confused as he block me on whatsapp and calls.

 

the root of our breakup is because of part my hot-tempered and his work pressure ..

I'm very regret with my action and what i did and now i really want him back and to fix thing but i doesnt know what to do..

What exaclty happen was there something happen at his work place(regular/army) and he was very depressed and he literally shut me off after making me wait for the whole day..

 

So 2 days of the breakup, i did call him and talk abit the way he told me things was making me confused, firstly he told me he needed space and time to think and stuff... then after that he told me about clean break... then he ask me move on.. so i had no choice but to agree with the moving on and after i agree he told me that "when are we going to contact again" (before that i told him dont have to be so mean after a breakup, we could still be friends) then he idky he ask me when are we going to contact again and i told him that maybe after we had move on.. he then told me that what if we cant move on ... which i stupidly said we dont know whats gonna happen in future! so in other words, he said he wanted space and time > clean break> move on> and then ask me what if we can't move on..

 

He did mention about giving each other time and space and maybe willl come back one day(tgt)

 

 

I really dont know what is he thinking .. any advise guys?

because after the phone call, he is still blocking me at whatsapp and calls....

 

 

its been a week since the breakup...

i do want him back and its my mistake that causes this breakup

Any advise how i could get him back?

[kturner16]

If he's really not interested in working things out, there's no way to get him back. But I would suggest going into No Contact. Don't call or text him. If he's serious about reconciliation, he will pursue you and that is when you will be able to tell if his love for you is genuine or not.

[milkgreentea]

If he's really not interested in working things out, there's no way to get him back. But I would suggest going into No Contact. Don't call or text him. If he's serious about reconciliation, he will pursue you and that is when you will be able to tell if his love for you is genuine or not.

When i call him up few days back

he told me he really love me and addressing me as "baby"

he did mention its very hard for him to move on because he's the one that loves more in the rs

 

but then again, if he said all of this... why is he avoiding me...

Does he really want to move on or he just in need of space and time...

[you must let it go]

When i call him up few days back

he told me he really love me and addressing me as "baby"

he did mention its very hard for him to move on because he's the one that loves more in the rs

 

but then again, if he said all of this... why is he avoiding me...

Does he really want to move on or he just in need of space and time...

 

Iv seen this happen to friends when some one gives it i just need space talk there as always been some one else in the picture 100% of the time hes keeping you as a back up sorry to tell you thats not the thing you want to hear right now but be prepared.

[milkgreentea]

Iv seen this happen to friends when some one gives it i just need space talk there as always been some one else in the picture 100% of the time hes keeping you as a back up sorry to tell you thats not the thing you want to hear right now but be prepared.

From our situation, firstly he's very busy with his work so there's no time for him to have some one else ...

secondly, before we broke up, he is putting alot of effort by arranging to meet up and out for date even tho his very occupied with work...

So i can assume that there's not third party here.

 

Work has consume alot of his personal time and whats more its because of our quarrel and work pressure he ask for a break..