overcomer1 Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 Hi Everyone.. today I will begin a 60 day NC challange. Tired of constantly checking her FB page. I gotta gain inner strength and build self esteem. Broke up May 14th. Time to heal. Glad to have this forum for accountability purposes. I dont want her back, I want myself back! 3
NC-Thomas Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 Block her on social media, that way you are not temped to check her page. 60 days? why not make that forever? 1
Satu Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 Good idea. ******************************************** *No direct contact in either direction. No sending or receiving of messages. No replies. Block any means she might use to contact you. *No indirect contact through third parties. *De-friend or delete from all social media. No monitoring of her on social media. *No 'little birds' feeding you news. *Tell people that you don't want to know anything about what she is doing or saying. ********************************************* 1
sober and dry Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 You can follow the rules for NC provided from Satu here to start. A 60 day challenge sounds great to me. I kind of did the same. A month ago I challenged myself to make 30 days proper NC. After those 30 days doing proper NC I though "well 30 days are gone, let´s make 30 days more". I hope to eventually, 30 days at a time if it's what it takes, it becomes natural I agree with challenge ourself to accomplish our goals, no matter what the steps are, provided that you get there! 1
SolidGoldTurd Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 Hi Everyone.. today I will begin a 60 day NC challange. Tired of constantly checking her FB page. I gotta gain inner strength and build self esteem. Broke up May 14th. Time to heal. Glad to have this forum for accountability purposes. I dont want her back, I want myself back! Why 60 days though? Why not for ever ... or unless she reaches out, then you can just ask her out.
foolinlove79 Posted May 25, 2015 Posted May 25, 2015 Lets do it together!!! I broke up may 11. Ive had one slip which was just to get out what i needed to say. It wasnt sad and pathetic. Just to get it off my chest. Ill start today too. 60 days. Lets do it. :-)
Tone Loc Posted May 25, 2015 Posted May 25, 2015 (edited) Good on you man. Good for you. It gets easier every day, it's honestly not all that difficult when you remind yourself of the reasons for the break up and the way the other person made you feel. Once you understand the situation, you're better equipped to see this NC thing through all the way. Just make sure you're really strict with things like avoiding checking up on her through social media. Change your phone number if possible, I found this to be a huge help because it stops you from constantly checking your phone to see if she has texted you or called you. Good luck to you, keep going strong. Edited May 25, 2015 by Tone Loc
Moley87 Posted May 25, 2015 Posted May 25, 2015 Wish you the best but remember this is now about you , NC is not an easy thing you will get an urge if so write here Keep us updated
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