jen4 Posted April 24, 2005 Posted April 24, 2005 Hi. This is my first time posting on this board. I have posted on the sex board though. Anyhow, I went on my 1st blind date ever last night! We had talked on the phone every night since Sunday,I really enjoyed our conversations. He is funny and easy to talk to. Well he picked me up and I am not physically attracted to him at all! My son and babysitter thought he looked GAY! I know he's not cause well I guess he's not cause he was turned on by me. Well I seem pretty superficial if I end our frien/relationship over this. I know he's still the nice guy over the phone,but there is no physical attraction. You do need that in a relationship! I guess maybe he could grow on me, who knows. I know I should give it a try. I feel pretty shallow. any insight is welcomed. thanks! JEN
Pocky Posted April 24, 2005 Posted April 24, 2005 If it's not there, it's not there. You can't just wave a magic wand and suddenly find yourself attracted to someone you're not. I'd be honest with him - tell him that he's a nice guy and you had a great time, but that there isn't any chemistry. Wish him well on his search for the right one.
HoldOn Posted April 24, 2005 Posted April 24, 2005 if I end our frien/relationship over this Ha ha... One blind date is not a "relationship"! You can't date someone without physical attraction. However, sometimes that can grow over time. If you weren't grossed out by him, you could give him another chance to grow on you. But if there's NO WAY, then just tell him you started dating someone else and sorry but he's a nice guy. Same thing happened to me. I went on a blind date and the guy ended up being a foot shorter than me! There's no way. So I e-mailed him and told him I got involved in a relationship.
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