SrJuanox Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 Hello everyone. Heres the case this time. 2 months ago I met the girl of my dreams by Tinder. She likes the same music as me, we are atracted to the same academic area, she has a conception of the life and of the things that is admirable, and so many other things that really make this girl absolutely amazing and lovable. The thing is, when this "Friendship" started we take ourselves super good, we talked about every day, and we always have a topic of conversation, it is amazing and the best months of my life. Then we date, and we had a really great time but we didnt kiss, i think it wasnt the time or I dont know. The thing is, I cant see her a lot because we have to study so much and dont really have time for each other, but anyway, we keep talking via text all the time. Should I kiss her on the second date? We havent seen since our first date, (like a month ago) so this is the second time I see her on my entire life, but we have talked a lot via messages and phone, and we care about each other a lot, we flirt, and things like that. I dont know if when I try to kiss her she moves her face away or she stops me, that would immediately kill the mood so I dont want to mess things up. What do you think guys, it is time to make "the move" or not yet?
LostOne1 Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 Hello everyone. Heres the case this time. 2 months ago I met the girl of my dreams by Tinder. She likes the same music as me, we are atracted to the same academic area, she has a conception of the life and of the things that is admirable, and so many other things that really make this girl absolutely amazing and lovable. The thing is, when this "Friendship" started we take ourselves super good, we talked about every day, and we always have a topic of conversation, it is amazing and the best months of my life. Then we date, and we had a really great time but we didnt kiss, i think it wasnt the time or I dont know. The thing is, I cant see her a lot because we have to study so much and dont really have time for each other, but anyway, we keep talking via text all the time. Should I kiss her on the second date? We havent seen since our first date, (like a month ago) so this is the second time I see her on my entire life, but we have talked a lot via messages and phone, and we care about each other a lot, we flirt, and things like that. I dont know if when I try to kiss her she moves her face away or she stops me, that would immediately kill the mood so I dont want to mess things up. What do you think guys, it is time to make "the move" or not yet? I would hold her hand first... see how she reacts. If you get a good response, then you know at the end of the date a kiss will work. But, if you hold her hand and she moves away.... then you know it wouldn't be a good idea. 1
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 Last week I had sex on my first date, here is how I ramped it up. Touched her hand commenting on a ring she was wearing. Holding hands while walking together Holding her close while watching a movie Kissing Making out Sex However you just need to read body language. At the end of a date you can sometimes skip straight to a kiss if she's ready for it.
kendahke Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 If she isn't reciprocating or showing you that she wants to be in your space, then don't kiss her. She will indicate by how close she is to you--if she leans in, if she touches your hand. If she's doing none of that, then she's not in the head space to enter into it.
alphamale Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 if she is a keeper then wait until date 3 to kiss her. if she is a ONS then kiss her right away
fitnessfan365 Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 I know you won't want to hear this. But it probably isn't a good idea to get so invested in a woman you can only see once a month. Remember, as close as you feel you are to this girl, you're essentially in a relationship with your phone. Texting isn't dating. Spending actual time with someone is. 2
BlueIvy Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 Last week I had sex on my first date, here is how I ramped it up. Touched her hand commenting on a ring she was wearing. Holding hands while walking together Holding her close while watching a movie Kissing Making out Sex However you just need to read body language. At the end of a date you can sometimes skip straight to a kiss if she's ready for it. Will there be a 2nd date though,lol?
BlueIvy Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 As fitness said, it seems you are too into it for what it is. If you want to develop this into a relationship, you guys need to spend more time together. I am busy going to school and working and managed to seem someone regularly. Also, texting isn't that hard to do, for all you know she could be texting other men. Anyway, I would say feel her vibe and see if you should kiss her. If she seems flirty or looks at you a lot, or does a lot of smiling, then kiss her. But if she seems reserved, then hold off until she opens up a bit.
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