Am I thinking to much

[ForHer]

So I went out with this guy

Two weeks we hung out nonstop

Then after accidentally being called my boyfriend by my friend he said its moving to fast. We went a week with zero communication...I thought I was being dropped then that next weekend we talked...he stayed 6 out of 7 nights that week

Now it's been a month. Last weekend he asked if I was talking to anyone else I said no. He said he wasn't either

I asked why it matter he said he wasn't ready for a relationship.

He said that was when we first started hanging out not that it wouldn't lead to one it was just to soon for him.... So I think we basically had the exclusive talk

WELL

I've notice all this week he never txt me. Or if he does it's not till 10 at night.

And it's not like we have sex every night he stays but the lack of communication

And not texting me till late at night make me feel like this is a bootycall relationship.

 

I'm wondering if I'm being to much of a women about not having enough communication or if he just wants me when he wants me.

 

Opinions?

[len51]

A lot of young guys are only interested in sex for a few years and not ready for a relationship. If you are looking for a relationship it is best to find out very early on if the guy is also looking for one. Personally I was never a one night stand kind of guy. I had relationships with all of my girlfriends. I like relationships. I am married for over 40 years and happy in my marriage.

 

I married when I was 21. My friends all waiting, going from one conquest to the next, until they were near 30 years old. One only got married because he got a 17 year old girl pregnant and it was either marry her or statutory rape charges. One married his girlfriend of 14 years only to divorce withing the first year. I lucked out.

 

You do not talk too much. You communicate. Communication is the key to a happy partnership. All too often a couples gets serious or married and then find out that they disagree on some very important things. People are usually afraid to be vulnerable and tell others their needs and desires. Just think how lucky you are. You found out that he is not the guy for you pretty quickly before you wasted more time on him.

[preraph]

Sounds like he's nowhere near commitment or exclusivity. See, most guys, even if they don't want to have to have commitment still don't want you to see other guys, which isn't fair. So you should probably be seeing other guys. Clearly, he's not interested in committing. But of course he still wants to get laid. Next time the subject comes up, tell him, As long as we're not exclusive, I 'll date other guys because I am looking for a boyfriend.

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Sounds like he only wants you for his convenience.

 

When it comes to your love life, you should be responsible for your own happiness. Which means, if you feel this situation is unfair to you, you cut the guy off.