kturner16 Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 My boyfriend broke up with me about 2.5 months ago and I've been struggling with it ever since. The worst part about struggling with it is that I honestly feel like I shouldn't be struggling with it at all. Whatsoever. If you read my last 2 posts, you'd notice that my ex said some cruel things to me about my deceased father and also him being unappreciative of me helping him out in the hospital when he had to get surgery (his girlfriend wasn't there, but I was. Funny huh?) I just feel so stupid for still missing him. How can I miss someone that spoke about my deceased father and who doesn't respect me or appreciate me? I just feel so weak. I haven't spoken to him in about a month so I'm Doing well with the no contact. I'm actually afraid to contact him because of the things he's said in the past. I feel so abnormal for still wanting to talk to him, and make things right but I just think to myself "how would I look taking someone like him back after all that he's said to me?" I hate being this attached to someone.
jen1447 Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 It's just human nature hon. People become attached to people they have a lot of exposure to - especially romantically, even if the romance isn't healthy. Look at all the examples of people who refuse to get out of abusive relationships. If you've successfully NCed him for a month, you're doing well. In another year or so, all the chemical induced bonding will be washed out of your system and all that will be left is a healthy loathing for what he really is.
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