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This post will probably present myself as lacking confidence.

 

Met a lady online. So we're set to meet up tonight after she gets back from cousin's birthday party.

 

But I said/texted something half-joke/half-serious yesterday.

 

And said/texted again today (this will be only 2nd time) about that something again.

 

She expressed a little annoyance(in my opinion) about stop obsessing/joking about it.

 

Did I just add negative impression?

 

Or shall I just act like nothing happened when we meet up and things restore? I guess since we haven't even met yet, all this doesn't matter.

Depending on how I do, all this is restored?

 

I think too hard. I have to plan about date with another lady next weekend.

ermmm... Idk what I'm doing

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IMO, save the humor for after the first meeting or during it, as appropriate. Limit electronic interaction to initial interest and setting up the first meeting. Focus on in-person activities and interactions as the goal. Whatever gets you to in-person are the actions. If something doesn't appear to work, try something else. As you're already doing, seek to meet a variety of ladies. Each will be unique.

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IMO, save the humor for after the first meeting or during it, as appropriate. Limit electronic interaction to initial interest and setting up the first meeting. Focus on in-person activities and interactions as the goal. Whatever gets you to in-person are the actions. If something doesn't appear to work, try something else. As you're already doing, seek to meet a variety of ladies. Each will be unique.

 

aye thank you. I'll just brush it off and act like nothing happened. It's her fault for not getting my humor.

Will continue to meet multiple simultaneously.

Thanks for advice.

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Respecting that humor sometimes doesn't translate via electronic means like e-mails/chat/text, one option, if your natural style is humorous, is to call the lady and do some humorous banter as part of the call. A woman who is like-minded will pick up on it and engage; others may not like it. Either is OK. Meeting people is about finding synergy and compatible partners.

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If it was sexual, you were out of bounds. Since you're avoiding saying what it was, I'm assuming it was sexual and you knew it was out of bounds.

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If it was sexual, you were out of bounds. Since you're avoiding saying what it was, I'm assuming it was sexual and you knew it was out of bounds.

 

Actually it was more like make-up and dresses.

But still, I don't think it was funny.

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What was it that you actually said?

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