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Been split over 6m now. Still have minimal contact due to shared child.

Now I don't want to be with her as it was & always would have been toxic but I still think of her all day everyday & I have these feelings of missing her & the relationship & also feelings of jealousy over her new man & things like that but if she offered the chance to be with her still, I wouldn't want to be because I don't like her or her ways so.....

Why am I having these feelings all the time when I don't even wanna be with her?

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Been split over 6m now. Still have minimal contact due to shared child.

Now I don't want to be with her as it was & always would have been toxic but I still think of her all day everyday & I have these feelings of missing her & the relationship & also feelings of jealousy over her new man & things like that but if she offered the chance to be with her still, I wouldn't want to be because I don't like her or her ways so.....

Why am I having these feelings all the time when I don't even wanna be with her?

 

I'm guessing your still single and don't have a girl in your life. That's totally normal to still think about her even when you know you're not a good fit for her and she's toxic. I still of my last couple of ex's occasionally and I have a great GF that I live with. I don't think you ever completely stop thinking about an ex. Yes, certainly not all day every day.

 

In your case, this will ease and really become less frequent when you're involved in your next relationship with someone you really are into.

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