minimus Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 Ok me and my gf have been together for about 9 months so far. And things have been great. But about 2 weeks ago she flew to south America to spend the summer with her family. So here's the deal. Before she left, she told me that she thought one of her best friends was lowkey into me. And I just assumed she was joking, I didn't think she was actually serious. I mean they're really close friends and have known each other for years. Since we started dating, me and my gf have spent alot of time hanging out with her and it seems like she really took a liking to me AS A FRIEND. We don't have each others phone numbers because we had only ever hung out whIle I was with my gf. So a few days ago I got a message on twitter from this girl where she put down her phone # and asked me to text her. I have not responded yet. Now to reiterate, I never thought she was interested in me as anything more than a friend. But the fact that my gf told me recently that she thought there may be something going on(still not sure if she was seriousor kidding) is making me cautious. I would never do anything to hurt my girlfriend or make her feel uncomfortable. And I know how I'd feel if I found out a friend of mine who i thought may be interested in my gf was texting her while I wasn't around. So here's my question. I think it would be best in this situation to let my gf know about this before I even respond. But how should I do this in a way that doesn't cause unnecessary drama or worry on her part. I mean what if this is a totally innocent message? I don't want her to panic or anything while she's in a totally different country if there isn't actually anything to worry about
sandylee1 Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 Don't respond. Then tell your GF when she gets back Or better still tell your GF about it and tell her you will not be responding, but wanted to let her know. Forward the text to your GF.
Clarence_Boddicker Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 It's probably a setup by your GF. She sounds like drama. 2
d0nnivain Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 Just casually mention to your GF, Hey your friend Suzie gave me her phone #. Based on what you said before you left I haven't responded. What do you want me to do? DH & I have contact info for most of our friends' SOs. The contact isn't the problem; it's the context 2
whichwayisup Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 Don't give her your number. There's no reason for you two to be texting, she's kind of crushing on you so just don't open that door it's going to cause problems.
jen1447 Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 Yeah, report to GF. If it's a test, you pass, and if it's not, you pass. I doubt she'll be angry w/you for being stand up guy. 1
stillafool Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 Good for you for not responding to the skank. Tell your gf immediately about this. Don't wait until she gets back. You are a good bf and there should be more like you.
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