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What's the cruelest/meanest thing your ex said to you after breaking up?

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erklat Established Member

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I was on the speaking end. I'm not proud with it but it is what it is now.

 

"I see they thaught you well at home how to inflict pain on others".

 

"Please let your little sister develop on her own, that way she has some chance".

 

And some other insults for her lowlife friends.

 

I mean, those were all true statements but said in worst possible way without

unnecessary prettifying.

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Bubberfly Established Member

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Ha. One of mine said, "You know, most relationships are about convenience, and you're just not 7-11 anymore."

Hahaha hilarious now that I think about it. I have no idea where he heard that from (maybe some television show, I have no idea). But he said it with such malice and hate at the time.

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ColdandLonelyinAK Established Member

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That my family all hates me; I cry to my mommy all the time; that he can see why my ex boyfriend beat me; I'm disgusting and no one will want to touch me.

Familia Member

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Mine said Damien I don't love you anymore, I wish you well in your future. That was hurtful enough and she knows that, after 7 years and she had been seeing someone for months prior to this conversation. Not to mention she said she had wasted 7 years which I do not see it like that, we had our ups and downs and some gorgeous memories together. We grew together and eventually apart when she found someone else, he is nearly bald which I am not hahaha sorry had to say it

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OK_computer Established Member

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I was on the speaking end. I'm not proud with it but it is what it is now.

 

"I see they thaught you well at home how to inflict pain on others".

 

"Please let your little sister develop on her own, that way she has some chance".

 

And some other insults for her lowlife friends.

 

I mean, those were all true statements but said in worst possible way without

unnecessary prettifying.

 

erklat that wasn't even that mean... :o

SycamoreCircle Established Member

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"...half-formed man..."

 

"...can't do sex well..."

 

"...perhaps you should see a sex counselor..."

 

"...have to explain everything to you..."

 

"...I think you were always more into me than I was into you..."

 

Suddenly, everything was wrong with me---appearance, intelligence, lifestyle, sexual prowess, bank account. The one thing I did have going for me, according to her, was I was not a jealous man. Thus, as she told her friend, she didn't feel bad about these strong feelings she had for the other man.

 

Funny how over a year later, I hear through the grapevine that she's still "angry" at me.

Jonp219 Established Member

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erklat that wasn't even that mean... :o

 

In a subtle way, what she said was kind of ****ed up.

jen1447 Established Member

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The degree of antagonism people use to try to injure others usually shows how much they've been hurt themselves, so that's actually a reason to feel pity for them. (I think very few people are genuine sadists that way.) Which is what makes the silent or nice or patronizing exes worse in a way - they don't have any hurt from you and you're just a lowly thing not even worthy of much emotion of any kind. Talk about leaving you feeling hollow ....I'd rather feel insulted than empty.

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AIJ Established Member

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Announcing via Twitter that 'it's like going from Bolton to Real Madrid'. Obviously comparing me and her new boyfriend.

 

Also 'Do you ever look at your ex and wonder if you were drunk the entire relationship?'.

 

Back when I used to obsess over her Twitter immediately after the break up. Just destroyed my self-esteem to be honest.

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Announcing via Twitter that 'it's like going from Bolton to Real Madrid'. Obviously comparing me and her new boyfriend.

 

Also 'Do you ever look at your ex and wonder if you were drunk the entire relationship?'.

 

Back when I used to obsess over her Twitter immediately after the break up. Just destroyed my self-esteem to be honest.

 

Damn, and I thought the stuff my ex wrote on her twitter was messed up...

 

Worst thing she ever said was, "You're a piece of ****" which I guess is normal? lol.

 

The rest of it was just break-up lyrics those just made me feel guilty and sad. :(

tasteringo New Member

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my ex parceled me unused condoms from a condom box I left at her place with a kind note saying

 

"good luck"

newmoon Established Member

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weirdly, i think it was "i hope we can stay friends because i really enjoyed our friendship and it meant a lot to me"

 

he cheated, so the audacity to even think i'd consider remaining friends with him made me quite hurt. that's how he treats friends? it was awful to hear that and made me realize he saw me as weak (aka forgiving). never spoke to him after that day although he reached out many times.

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There are a few things my ex said to my that really stung.....

 

" It could've been worse, at least I didn't cheat on you." Really, that's supposed to make me feel better?!

 

" Obviously it was that bad, that's why I left."

 

" I don't know if it can be fixed but I don't want to try." Turns out he went right back to his ex, so that explains that.

 

And I've posted on this one before, "what kind of woman doesn't wear lingerie." This is where he was basically "blaming" me for his performance issue, and not doing enough to help him. He had the issue long before I was with him, but never wanted to deal with it. I easily could've said "what kind of man can't get it up," but I'd never say such a hurtful thing.

erklat Established Member

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In a subtle way, what she said was kind of ****ed up.

 

What do you mean ? I'm HE btw. ?

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DexterLS Established Member

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"You lost your mom and you are ok now. Pretend that I am dead too".

 

The part that hurt about this is she knew what happened to me after I lost my mom. I went into a severe depression.

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Kamila Established Member

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"I had a spare girl for over a year... but I didn't do anything about it because I was with you ..."

OK_computer Established Member

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What do you mean ? I'm HE btw. ?

 

u stated the FACTS, you don't resolve to cheap below the belt blows. Mad respect bra :bunny::laugh:

 

It's the flat out truth that hurts the most.

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"Bi-ch, Wh-re, Sl-t...''

"I'm happy now with my girl, she's an angel and you're the devil..."

 

My ex said a lot of things that I'm trying not to think about. He scarred me to the point that it's very hard for me to trust other men.

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Break up text. ..

 

 

Her: I'm sorry, I been doing a lot of thinking. I'm not ready to be in a relationship, I'm still In love with joey (her ex) he and I our going to be spending alot of time together. I don't want to give you false hopes. ( which she clearly did)

HeR.I just want to be honest, a lot of people are upset wirh me right now. I just csnt help the way I feel.

 

Me: who's upset

Her: you, and joey and the other stuff going on with my family. I'm just doing what's best for me..

Her: I understand, if yoi don't want to be friends or tslk to me anymore ....I get it

erklat Established Member

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u stated the FACTS, you don't resolve to cheap below the belt blows. Mad respect bra :bunny::laugh:

 

It's the flat out truth that hurts the most.

 

I was overly harsh. I told her if she hangs with sluts and lowlifes there

is only one opinion they will have about her. She was prideful as of she

was holy mother of Jesus. She was a slut.

 

If I could reverse the time I would now and turn away and walk in silence.

But I lashed and sent gifts and letters. It is what it is now.

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xpaperxcutx Established Member

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"You lost your mom and you are ok now. Pretend that I am dead too".

 

The part that hurt about this is she knew what happened to me after I lost my mom. I went into a severe depression.

 

wow your ex was a cruel heartless bee.

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jen1447 Established Member

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Oh I remembered one from my young disaster breakup -

 

Me: [feeling despair]

Him: Try reading a book or watching TV. It'll take your mind off it.

Me: [feeling despair and thinking that's really all you've got for me?]

 

Wasn't intended to be cruel but it was dehumanizing in the utter lack of understanding (and concern for) the depth of my despair. People who are rapidly bleeding to death don't watch TV to distract themselves from dying, they just die. :p

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mightycpa Established Member

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She dumped me that afternoon, and I was in shock. We went out later that night on a pity date, I don't remember a thing about it, I never have, not even the next day. At the end of the night, we were sitting in the back seat of my buddy's car, and a breakup song played on the radio. The timing was perfect, like God had something to do with it. I lay my head on her shoulder, and listened. Parting was going to be such sweet sorrow. At the end of the song, I got out of the car, and said

 

Goodbye, Matilda
She glared at me in scornful silence. I couldn't believe that she wouldn't even say goodbye, and so I left in complete defeat. We never spoke another word to each other again.

 

Compared to some of my other breakups, and to some of the other things I've read, I know it doesn't sound all that bad, but in that moment, it was horrible, and it felt so mean and so cruel. It's the worst thing that I've ever felt in my entire life from somebody.

 

I've never been able to forget it, and I've never been able to really understand it. If one of my friends had told me my story, I'd say that she was angry because he didn't resist the breakup, that she wanted him to act like it meant something worth fighting for, and because he didn't fight for it, she was angry at him. But that would make my ex a piece of ****, and to this day, I refuse to believe that about her.

Phoe Established Member

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"No one else will ever love you." from the most recent ex. That **** got to me. He knew exactly how to hit where it would hurt.

 

"I was only with you for the blowjobs" from the first ex. LMAO that was ungodly embarrassing.

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mightycpa Established Member

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"No one else will ever love you." from the most recent ex. That **** got to me. He knew exactly how to hit where it would hurt.

 

"I was only with you for the blowjobs" from the first ex. LMAO that was ungodly embarrassing.

or unabashedly validating? :laugh:
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