whichwayisup Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 . I guess I shouldn't care if his feelings are hurt or not because if he chooses to date a woman who wants to flirt w/ men in front of him, on a date, that is his problem. No, you SHOULD care because he's a friend of yours. She made a complete fool of him (and herself) by acting the way she did. Just isn't cool going around doing that. I stated all along that this woman was insecure and looking for attention...Married, single, didn't matter...She just wanted to flirt and she did. Screw what her date thought/felt and everybody else.
Author StillHurtin Posted May 2, 2005 Author Posted May 2, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup No, you SHOULD care because he's a friend of yours. She made a complete fool of him (and herself) by acting the way she did. Just isn't cool going around doing that. I stated all along that this woman was insecure and looking for attention...Married, single, didn't matter...She just wanted to flirt and she did. Screw what her date thought/felt and everybody else. Thank you whichway, right now, I am honestly confused. Do I care about his feelings getting hurt b/c he can choose to leave the party if he doesn't like how she is acting? Or should I care b/c he is my friend. I'm getting different replies and I don't know what to think anymore on this subject. It's been over a week and this thread hasn't had a reply in that amount of time so I am over what she did. I realize that I should listen to my own thoughts, and feelings on this one and not give a s*** what others have to say about it (that she did nothing wrong). I didn't post this thread to read replies that I am wrong for feeling the way I do. I just wanted to vent. Hope that all made sense. I am so tired 2nite, been a long day at the drag races and I am pooped.
whichwayisup Posted May 2, 2005 Posted May 2, 2005 Nah, it's okay and you made sense. Whatever happened happened, and obviously you've moved past it. But, it still doesn't make it right what she did. For some reason your guy friend couldn't bring himself to do anything about it. You being his friend reacted and felt what he should have felt. Shows you care. People on LS have different thoughts/opinions. Some are bang on and some are way off. Try not to let it get to you, take it as what it is worth. An opinion. In the end, it's your thoughts and your friends thoughts that count the most. Sleep well!
Author StillHurtin Posted May 7, 2005 Author Posted May 7, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup Nah, it's okay and you made sense. Whatever happened happened, and obviously you've moved past it. But, it still doesn't make it right what she did. For some reason your guy friend couldn't bring himself to do anything about it. You being his friend reacted and felt what he should have felt. Shows you care. People on LS have different thoughts/opinions. Some are bang on and some are way off. Try not to let it get to you, take it as what it is worth. An opinion. In the end, it's your thoughts and your friends thoughts that count the most. Sleep well! Whichway, guess what, I seen this woman at the movie store w/ another guy last weekend. I asked my sil if she was still dating our friend and she told me she was and asked why. I told her that I seen her w/ another guy at the movie store. I was waiting in my car for H and seen him get out of her van and walk into the store 2gether. I asked her if she had an older son (I didn't see his face very clear) and she said no, her oldest was still very young. I asked my brother to see if he knew (they are close friends, closer than him and his W) and he said that they were still seeing eachother and was suprised she was at the movie store w/ another guy. He didn't look to happy about it. Obviously she must be dating around and from my brother and sil's reactions, he doesn't know about it, or maybe he does and doesn't care. I called my sil to talk and she said they were both at her house 2nite together.
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