lolla Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 so me my 10years boyfriend had an argument about 2months ago.he thinks that im underestimed him while im just joking.so he wont talk to me.ignore me but i only texted him twice.after a month of no Contact,her sister had a wedding and i congratulate him and his sister and he replied..but then,im not reply his msg for one week.then i replied and askin him to meet up and he's not reply my msg..that was 3weeks ago but i never msg him since..what should i do? should i meet him? i never call because i scare of rejection
Redhead14 Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 so me my 10years boyfriend had an argument about 2months ago.he thinks that im underestimed him while im just joking.so he wont talk to me.ignore me but i only texted him twice.after a month of no Contact,her sister had a wedding and i congratulate him and his sister and he replied..but then,im not reply his msg for one week.then i replied and askin him to meet up and he's not reply my msg..that was 3weeks ago but i never msg him since..what should i do? should i meet him? i never call because i scare of rejection He's not your boyfriend anymore. Move on. Stop contacting him and/or responding. If he were still in love with you, he would have been back sooner. I might guess that he used that joking remark as the catapult for doing something he wanted to do for some time. 2
Author lolla Posted May 22, 2015 Author Posted May 22, 2015 (edited) thank you redhead for you reply.as our background relationship, in past,i had some issue like i always talking sarcastic and really bad temper..then we broke up at september 2013 and back together in july 2014.we never had a fight after we"re back together.we now in long distance relationship but every month he will visit me even it cost a lot of money.he thinks that while he trying all the best all i can do is complaining and never had enough.thats why i feel he worth the fight.. Edited May 22, 2015 by lolla
Author lolla Posted May 22, 2015 Author Posted May 22, 2015 He's not your boyfriend anymore. Move on. Stop contacting him and/or responding. If he were still in love with you, he would have been back sooner. I might guess that he used that joking remark as the catapult for doing something he wanted to do for some time. This is not just about a joke that wasn't funny. what do you mean? i dont get it
Redhead14 Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 thank you redhead for you reply.as our background relationship, in past,i had some issue like i always talking sarcastic and really bad temper..then we broke up at september 2013 and back together in july 2014.we never had a fight after we"re back together.we now in long distance relationship but every month he will visit me even it cost a lot of money.he thinks that while he trying all the best all i can do is complaining and never had enough.thats why i feel he worth the fight.. Exactly, you had a history of being critical and bad tempered and broke up as a result, I assume. Now you've done something that opened that wound again and history appeared to him to be repeating itself. Sure, you haven't argued since being back together, but it wouldn't take much to push him over the edge. Leave it alone. He has to feel it's worth the fight, not you. Take this time to work on your sarcasm and temper and get centered and focused on yourself. If he is going to come back, he's going to need to see/know that you are working on the problem and have it under control. 1
Satu Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 what do you mean? i dont get it What I mean is that it would take more that to end a 10 year relationship
stillafool Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 It does sound like he's done with you and the relationship. If he wants you back he should be the one to contact you. Stop chasing after him. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 You don't have a boyfriend anymore. He is done. Stop contacting him so you can move on too. He apparently already has. 1
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