Friskyone4u Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 Minimus Ultimately, the more I think about it, the more it seems like this is a case of her enjoying the attention as opposed to actually being interested in the guy. Not only does he not really fit the bill for the type of guy she'd be interested in, but she also does have self esteem issues. So I think this is a case of her feeling validated by someone being interested in her and making her feel desired (despite the fact she says I do this well). But dont get me wrong, I do find this totally inappropriate and disrespectful as well. The above is very naive. if you read these forums you will know what the AP does not have to conform to what you think your girlfriend would like. There are women on here having sex with men that would not date all over the place who happen to say the right things. And the comment about her liking the attention is EXACTLY how affairs start, the searching and needs for the ego kibbles. There is absolutely no reason if she has told you about his advances that she should have done this and it is time for you to get some answers before you get some very unpleasant news.
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