lucy1822 Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 Hello loveshack I am taking my driving test today in 3 hours time!! I feel so anxious. My friends and family have sent me a text to say good luck, but I've received nothing from my boyfriend. 0!!! Is this okay? Should he be wishing me good luck? Surely he should be thinking ah she's probably really worried I better text her to say it will be okay. I could be wrong. What do you think? He always says just because I don't text you all the time doesn't mean I'm not thinking about you. (Which is true, I guess).
TaraMaiden2 Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 Focus on your test. Pass it. let him know you've passed it. Celebrate together. Jeesh, if you worry ths much about the 'little' things, what are you going to be like when you discover he bites his toenails/leaves the toothpaste tube open/squeezes it in the middle/doesn't put the milk back in the fridge/leaves empty cartons of food in the cupboard when he's taken and eaten the last bit?? These are all genuine 'little things that have added up to cause real friction in relationships. You need to sort the wheat from the chaff and realise he may be assuming you'll pass, and not worry about the 'good luck' bit... But know that little things cause big issues. Discuss it with him - AFTER you've passed your test. Oh and by the way... Good Luck - !! 1
casey.lives Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 Good luck!! Being independent is also about being emotionally self-supporting.. If he hasn't said anything maybe he is encouraging you to be independent, in his own way.
d0nnivain Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 Grown men often forget to be thoughtful to their wives. You can't expect a teeanaged boy to remember stuff like this. Men & women think differently. To him your driving test is a non-event. My husband would tell me it's a given that I would do well so there is no reason for him to wish me luck. Your BF if he thought about this at all, it never dawned on him to wish you luck It doesn't mean he doesn't care. It just means he isn't expressing his caring this way. Forget about him & concentrate on the road. Good luck!
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