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early on insecurities, turn off or being too hard


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I recently met a guy online, before we even met in person , he kept telling me about how he wanted me to tell him if I'm not physically attracted to him (fair enought) but then he kept talking about how he had a long term relationship end because the girl wasn't attracted to him (a bit TMI in my opinion before even meeting?) He also kept saying how much he hoped I liked him in person. The insecuirty was like shining in my face. I understand everyone is insecure in some sort of way, but this to me was a bit TMI and a turn off to be saying before even meeting. Or am I being too harsh?

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No you are not being too harsh at all. Imagine spending a significant amount of time while dating, trying to reassure him every little thing about him is ok.

 

These insecurities are his responsibility to resolve on his own. Sounds like this man is not ready for dating..

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I agree everyone is insecure but this was too much too soon. Forget how he looks. His personality is a turn off at this point.

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