Megas10 Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 Sooo, we have ben very close friends for 3 years (we live very close, we come back from school together, same ideals/ideology, understand each other and been very sincere with each other) Like 3 weeks ago i asked her out: we went to a café, talked like for 2 hours (pretty standart date), i walked her home, suggested another hang out, she said Yeah, whenever you want, kiss on the cheek and goodbye. Today, I'm still confused i she took it as a "date" and i bonestly don't care. After this, i started to act different towards her: whenever we have to be in a group activity i ask her to be with me, I sit more closely to her (away from my close friends in the class) and i always kiss her on the cheek after walking towards our homes. Now I asked if she was free on the weekend (it's going to be an extended weekend here in Argentina due to a holiday), she said she is having 2 horse-riding competitions (friday and saturday) (Yeah, she practises it) and is likely going out (to a disco) in Sunday. But here's the thing, as far as i know, her competitions are not in the morning nor in the evening. Stated this, she should be free tomorrow (friday) and saturday. She has always been sincere to me (never got a lie from her that i discovered) and very direct. Due to this i will propose this to her tomorrow, should i? I am being to pushy? She isn't interested, is she? As a Plan B, if tomorrow she rejects my date for X reason then i will tell her i like her, in a proper way, and ask her if i have chances with her. tl;dr: Asked crush out. Went well. What move should i play? Don't think she is ignoring me.
d0nnivain Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 She may simply want to be well rested & not distracted for her competitions. Do try to spend some time with her. Can you go watch her in the competitions to be supportive?
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