cottom Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 This girl, I found out from my brother (he was in her year at school), loves attention. What he said seems to fit perfectly, but how the hell do you attract the girl that wants you to pay attention to her, because all guys like this girl and throw attention at her and she just plays it off. But i know there must be something there, we went on a date, had a good time and ended up kissing. Which im sure doesnt happen when there is nothing there. This story is about this week in the gym... However, this week ive paid her hardly any attention in the gym, monday she said some brief words and then i replied then left it there. Wednesday we ended up having to work together in this class, she seemed pretty pissed off that she was paired with me as if she doesnt want to be near me, but i was pushing her like a normal gym partner would as if i didnt know her. Today she comes and works right next to me and my mate, then starts asking me for all advice and asking for new exercises to workout arms, and she was letting me touch her and hold her and guide her while doing the bicep curls etc to show her the correct form. She kinda gave me a **** test in the convo though, she mentioned how shes going away with her mates and shes pissed off she has to share a tent with her ex bf and other mates. I replied with my ex is going out with my best mate its no biggie, she left it there. Then she asked if im doing boxing with my mate (im a boxer and teach it a little). She says shes going to come to. Me and my mate go down and then 2 minutes later she comes down and joins us, she asks me to hold pads for her to punch and i do it, then i let my mate have a go and i can see her in the mirror wandering out like she doesnt know what to do in a room full of speed balls, pads and punchbags looking over at us. Then she pretty much told me to work with her instead of him and when i suggested me swap with him she pretty much shot the idea down, i kinda forced him to take the pads and i punch and she stood there watching, then she had a go and we went another 40 minutes non stop her punching and me pushing her and she did exactly what i told her! Then we finished up and i went steam room, she joined later and we started chatting in there as if we were quite close mates. Im planning now to not give her much attention next time, chat to her ask how her weekend away was and then leave it at that and walk away. Is that the best way? Make her pretty much beg for my attention?
fitnessfan365 Posted May 22, 2015 Posted May 22, 2015 After four threads on this same woman, my advice is still the same. KEEP ASKING HER OUT. I mean you finally stopped beating around the bush and asked her out once. You had a good date, made out a few times, and it ended with another kiss goodnight. But then, even though she kept showing signs of interest, you went back to ignoring her and playing these lame games around the gym. Why not just keep asking her out? If you try to ask her out for another date and she says "no" then you can finally move on. If she says"yes" and you have another good date, then keep asking her out after that.
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