aloneinaz Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 How long could it take, to get over a 4month relationship? It was pretty intense Honestly, not that long, even if it was intense. I had a short relationship end like this, I waited a week to clear my head, realized it wasn't a good relationship and was dating within a week..
soulforge Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 Honestly, not that long, even if it was intense. I had a short relationship end like this, I waited a week to clear my head, realized it wasn't a good relationship and was dating within a week.. Normaly i would move on quick.. but this time, this girl really effected me.. I started seeing a long term future with her.. And same as you, there was lots of things that was wrong too.. red flags that ignored.. I really hope i get over this chick quick.. I guess i am finding it tougher to move on because, i second guess myself about walking away.. My heart is still holding on a little.. but my brain tells me i did the right thing 1
soulforge Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 Sometimes i wish she had just plain dumped me.. it would had been clear cut.. and i would have taken an ego hit, and just moved on.. Where as now i feel in limbo lol... one thing that gives me concelation is, that i tried... i tried to talk, i tried to reach out and talk things through.. i swallowed my pride and tried to save the relationship, before i ended it.. where as all she did was sulk and be stubborn.. her loss.. i will get my life back on track and find a girl who will stick by me through the good and the tough times 2
HowMightI-live Posted May 23, 2015 Posted May 23, 2015 Together= 3 and a half years NC=8 months. Today isnt a good day but hey, tomorrow's a new day, right? 1
OK_computer Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 17 months. I don't even think of it as NC anymore. It's just life. I can barely remember the guy. Yup right around 15 months for me, the first like 7 months I was thinking NC is probably NOT going to last, like it's just a huge hiatus or sabbatical or something. But after over a year of NC, there's no going back, we're past the point of no return. A YEAR OF NC! Think of the time! there's no going back, and the pain is slowly fading...soon to be a distant memory. I realize I was retarded to begin with even falling for a horrible person like my ex. Next time my guards up. 3
The Poster Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 A little over 6 months now. Not a single word has been spoken from either side since the breakup, and that is still very weird to me. Like everything just vanished in one swift moment and that was it. The first 3 months were the most pain I've ever felt in my life, but some of that also came from other aspects of my life that were in shambles. These last 3 months have been worlds better. I still have the occasional day here or there where I think back and get sad, but nothing more than that.
Bubberfly Posted May 24, 2015 Posted May 24, 2015 I'm at 9 months now. I think about him every day, but I'm still getting used to him not being in my life (together for 6 years, but have known each other since we were kids) We had a terrible breakup, he treated me BAD. I'm at a weird stage where I have absolutely no desire to talk to him, I really could care less how he's doing... But I still kind of wish he'd contact me. I guess as an ego boost haha Not like I'd actually want to talk to him (or would even answer the phone), but just the knowledge that he at least thinks of me maybe even a little bit (like I think of him) would be kinda cool.
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