kalahari Posted April 24, 2005 Posted April 24, 2005 Hi Everyone I need some advice on this as I cannot figure it out? I was seeing this girl for 2 years and we love each other very much. I recently went through a tough time in my business and it consumed a lot of my time and I was depressed as well. To come to the point-4 weeks ago I recieve a text message informing me from her that she cannot go on with our relationship as I have all this stuff to sort out in my business. I replied that maybe she is right but I need that things in the business will be ok soon and that I love her dearly. This happened shortly before easter and she decided to go with some friends out of town for the week-end. After the week-end she told me that she want to be together and I was real happy! Than somethig strange happened-for 1 week she totally ignored me and on the Monday I recieved a e-mail telling me that she have met the most wonderfull person that makes her unbelievable happy and she want to spend the rest of her life with him. This really hurt me as I know that she relly loves me, well I though that she really loves me but this was a big shock for me. I have since then decided to do the NC thing that I read so much about in the forum as I was hoping that she will come to her senses and that we could talk about the problem as e-mials are really hiding tourself. So far I have not recieved a beep from her. My quistions are: Can a person overnight fall out of love with somebody and into love with the next guy entering your life? Is she using this guy to get away from our relationship? How long will it last? She even talked about suicide if she cant have me and that really scared me, that was just before the week-end that she went away with her friends. I dont know what to do as I really love this women but also respect her decisions if she want to move on with her life-is the way she is doing it the right way and must I just accept it? I know that she is having sex with this guy already and it break my heart. Please give me advice anybody, I will apreciate any comments.
AngelEyz Posted April 24, 2005 Posted April 24, 2005 This girl does not love you and why would you even want her back after she did this to you? she wouldn't go off with some other guy if you were the most important person to her. I am so sorry. find someone that is worth your time. it's not her.
Author kalahari Posted April 24, 2005 Author Posted April 24, 2005 Do you think I must send her a mail explaining my feelings or keep up with the nc. This really hurts as through the last two years I have give and done so much for her. In the mail she send me she said that she really wanted things to work between us but now have met this wonderfull guy. Will she be happy, i know i cannot answer that as everybody have different emotions and feelings, is she on a rebound now? Gee, I am totally confused here what to do. Moving on will not be so easy and I need advice on this.
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