confusedmandi Posted May 21, 2015 Posted May 21, 2015 Guy is in 40s ten years older than me. I thought we were beginning to date.. But apparently we r more Fwb. He didn't say this but his actions r this way. We work different schedules so we saw each other once a week for last three months. Used to make plans a week in advance and then he started asking a day before or same day. We have sex then sit and talk for like four hours. He's always been very sweet to me but the last time we saw each other after we slept together he talked about how he couldn't wait to see me next time and he played with my hair while we talked. Was very sweet and intimate. Well then I did not hear from him for a week! We used to never go more than two days without talking. I txt him the night after our great night and he never responded. A week later I get a txt. Not an emanation no plans are made. Just a hello and some joking around. Then two days later a happy mothers day text. I recently told him when I'm free if he wants to hang out and also said if it annoys u that I keep wanting to hang out please tell me and I'll quit. He said ur not annoying me. But made no plans. It's been three weeks since we saw each other. I'm thinking he's not intersted. But if that's true y does he respond to my texts immediately now. Y does he say me asking him to hang out doesn't annoy him. Y does he keep in contact but make no plans?
TunaCat Posted May 21, 2015 Posted May 21, 2015 He only wants you for sex. It's probably more of a FWB situation. Now you have to figure out if that's what you want as well. He responds instantly to your texts because he's hoping you want to hook up with him.
ExpatInItaly Posted May 21, 2015 Posted May 21, 2015 I would say he's losing/lost interest. He keeps in contact because he knows he can get sex when he wants, with no strings attached. If you want something more, this guy isn't it.
La.Primavera Posted May 21, 2015 Posted May 21, 2015 Is this situation making you happy? Do you want more? Perhaps it is time to have a real conversation with him about the situation, face to face. Find out what he wants. If that isn't enough for you then you need to be prepared to move on and find someone who wants the same things.
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