Calidude6 Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 I'm on this dating app and myself and this girl liked each other's profile. Always found it odd trying to talk to someone through a dating app. Without being creepy or cheesy, what's a good way to start a convo? A simple, "Hey :)" or what else is good?
losangelena Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 Well ... you could ask how her day is going or what she's up to. Mention something about her profile that jumped out at you—like something you both have in common, for instance.
lionheart153 Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 It's a hit or miss really. I find some girls will respond with a simple hello, or some won't. If you want to pull of the trick that gets most girls, you find something on there profile, and use it as a segway into a joke. That way her interested is peaked and shes laughing.
TunaCat Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 You want to stand out, so please, please do not just say "hey" Mention something in her profile. That shows her that you noticed something about her profile that interested you.
JJCaliGirl Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 Definitely don't just say hi or hey. I will never reply to those guys. I agree with the others by mentioning something on her profile as it shows her that you took time to read through what she wrote. I would rather it be something humorous than serious, but that's me. Good luck!
aloneinaz Posted May 21, 2015 Posted May 21, 2015 Why are you just liking her profile? That looks VERY weak and like you don't have much confidence. What you need to do when you find someone you're interested in is send them a message. Mentioning something about their profile to make it personal is good too. I've always had good success in starting with something funny or humorous that also conveyed confidence. If a girl viewed my profile and didn't say hello or anything and I found her attractive, I'd reply with- "Ya know, I'm a bit hurt here. I saw you viewed my profile yet didn't say hello to me:)" If they are interested or curious they will respond with something witty. If they don't then they are not interested. I only gave a girl one shot to reply. Of course, I'd send that to many different girls as well. You want to throw out a wide net. It's like sales calls, the more people you're in front of, the better your chances. BTW, I have some single female friends. There number one bitch about the dating sites is guys don't have the balls to say hello to them. Guys are too scared of rejection.
KatZee Posted May 21, 2015 Posted May 21, 2015 Say whatever you want. It honestly doesn't matter. When I was online dating a guy could write, "Hey" or do this entire thought out spiel. If I liked how he looked, I would respond. If I didn't, I wouldn't.
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