johndail Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 Recently my ex has started talking to me every once in a while. It started out by her wanting to go see a new movie and then we ended up having a few drinks talking having a good time and then we ended up going back to my place and slept together but never had sex. Stayed in contact every day next week and then hung out again that weekend and I ended up going to her place and slept in her bed. Not my decision, she wanted me to stay and we didn't kiss or have sex. But after that the communication has kinda went to a minimum. Will text or snap chat every once in a while. I haven't asked her anything about it or made a situation uncomfortable. Not sure what I even want cause if it ever does lead to something it would be the third time we gave it a shot in about three years. Never cheated on each other just had disagreements that i guess we couldnt get over. Stupid stuff that could of been avoided by communicating but we both are very stubborn. Just curious on what you guys think?
Ruby65 Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 She's got you there to hang out with, see movies with, sleep with, give her attention and affection, keep her from feeling lonely.... you're an emotional placeholder until she finds her next boyfriend. I have no idea why you'd want to put yourself in that position. There's no reason to have contact with an ex unless she's asking to get back together. 3
NC-Thomas Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 Epic mistake. She just tried to check up on you and probably make sure you were both OK, so that she can relieve her guilt. And she did, so she no longer has any use for you, because now she can feel good about herself because there is no tension between you two anymore. However for you, this is much worse, because you don't have any interest is hanging out with her apart from being together again, therefore you gain hope (otherwise you wouldn't be posting here). Being friends with your ex is in her advantage and in your disadvantage (If she dumped you). Now that she had her advantage, she can move on with a clear concience while you are left wondering, what the **** happened here? Hope you learned from this to NEVER hang out with an ex. She probably sensed that you were desperate and needy, for going to bed with her anyway (?) Move on, she is just hanging out with you for HER needs. Agreed with Ruby65.
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