wing81 Posted April 24, 2005 Posted April 24, 2005 I had a first date with the girl that I mentioned in a post about a week ago. It was a short dinner date at a middle of the road restuarant but I'm no sure how to judge how it went. It didn't go so badly having want to rush out but it wasn't so good that she didn't want the night to end. I was wondering what clues might help determine if she is interested or not and whether a second date may be in store. Also what are some ideas for a second date? I was thinking a college baseball game (she does like baseball).
RecordProducer Posted April 24, 2005 Posted April 24, 2005 Your common sense should tell you how it went, but I've also noticed that most guys don't have the slightest idea that I don't like them at all so they keep hitting on me. The best thing to do is call her and ask her for another date. Ask her what she would like to do. Romantic would always be my choice (dinner with wine and a smooth conversation with a lot of laughing and flirting is my idea of a perfect date), but that's just me. I would avoid ambiance where something else (a game, movie, etc.) is more important than the two of you. How about a one-day trip to another city together? (without staying there over night) You could go to museums, galleries, and other interesting places toghether...It would be really romantic to do it before you sleep together. I bet no one has ever suggested that to her before!
reservoirdog1 Posted April 24, 2005 Posted April 24, 2005 A fantastic indicator is, when she has opportunities to avoid seeing you, or to shorten a date, and she doesn't take advantage of them. With the woman I'm dating now, on our third date she told me in advance that she might only have about two hours because she might have to pick up her daughter early. Anyway, she arrived at my place and told me that, as it turned out, she DIDN'T have to rush off after two hours. She could've taken that out easily but didn't -- an I have kids too so I would have totally understood. So, ask her out again. If she doesn't resist, that means she's interested. If she was repelled by you after the first date, she'll make excuses or just tell you she's really busy.
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