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Waiting on a girl...friends first


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I'm 19 years old and met this wonderful girl about 5 months ago. Shes a really good friends to one of my buddies. Anyways, she broke up with her bf of 4 years about 3 months ago or so. From what I have heard they always were fighting, and had a 5 month break in their relationship.

 

She knows I am interested in her as I have told her. She said she likes hanging out with me and I'm cute, cool, etc.

But, she isnt ready to jump into a relationship right yet. Over the past month or so we have been getting closer and talk nearly everyday...most of the time online. And I see her about 1-3 times a week (most of the time with a group tho)

 

This girl I feel is perfect for me. I dont really want to get out and meet other girls because I like her so much and dont think they could compare. But, I dont want to just become a really good friend and ruin a romantic relationship for us.

 

I need to know how to quit being so clingy...as I want to talk to her so much and see her all the time...because I feel by doing this I am setting myself up for the friendzone or whatever.

 

She has expressed to me that she thinks 'couples' need to be friends first and mentioned something about us being 'more than friends' in the future.

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You plan to keep waiting while she hunts for a new boyfriend? That's what will happen (probably as we speak).

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