Joe Schmo Posted April 23, 2005 Posted April 23, 2005 I'm 19 years old and met this wonderful girl about 5 months ago. Shes a really good friends to one of my buddies. Anyways, she broke up with her bf of 4 years about 3 months ago or so. From what I have heard they always were fighting, and had a 5 month break in their relationship. She knows I am interested in her as I have told her. She said she likes hanging out with me and I'm cute, cool, etc. But, she isnt ready to jump into a relationship right yet. Over the past month or so we have been getting closer and talk nearly everyday...most of the time online. And I see her about 1-3 times a week (most of the time with a group tho) This girl I feel is perfect for me. I dont really want to get out and meet other girls because I like her so much and dont think they could compare. But, I dont want to just become a really good friend and ruin a romantic relationship for us. I need to know how to quit being so clingy...as I want to talk to her so much and see her all the time...because I feel by doing this I am setting myself up for the friendzone or whatever. She has expressed to me that she thinks 'couples' need to be friends first and mentioned something about us being 'more than friends' in the future.
westernxer Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Most of the time, when you're friends with a girl that's all you'll ever be. Better put a foot on the brake, unless you wish to remain in her friend zone permanently.
fundamental Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer Most of the time, when you're friends with a girl that's all you'll ever be. Better put a foot on the brake, unless you wish to remain in her friend zone permanently. Yeah...what he said. She knows you like her but she is putting a road block right in front of you... saying that she isn't ready. This could be very true. However, DO NOT eliminate other women because she is not ready or else you will regret it and end up hating her for wasting your time. You are probably thinking that if you stop talking to her so much, she will forget about you. Well, you have already expressed interest in her, it is up to her now. If she likes you, she won't forget about you. If I were you, I would stay friendly with her but DO NOT be her buddy (best friend). If you become her buddy, she may never be interested in you. So, find a few other girl that you might be interested in to keep your full attention off of her. If she likes you, she will let you know.
Skullcrusher Posted April 25, 2005 Posted April 25, 2005 Look at how NO women in this forum replies back to you but only men. Cause men give the best advice to men and women back off because we know the truth. "She has expressed to me that she thinks 'couples' need to be friends first and mentioned something about us being 'more than friends' in the future." LOL, this is a long winded version of "let's just be friends" it's over bro. Go look for other hoes.
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