ScarlettDaisy Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 It's something that I love. Turns me on big time. That said, it's not a deal breaker with the guy I'm with right now. He hates the feeling of tongues together. Makes him feel physically ill. He's in his 40's so that's not something that's going to change now. So I could either find someone else or enjoy everything else he's good at. I choose the latter.
jen1447 Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 Give me tongue, or give me death...no make that ice cream. I'd rather plow through a pint of rocky road than have my lips chapped and face eaten by a bad kisser. Tongue is great but I feel like lips are often overlooked. I think personally that lip action should make up maybe 3/4 of your facetime.
Ninjainpajamas Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 Well, kissing is a pretty big deal to me and I look for compatible lips..typically preferring medium-to full lips (but not the botox injected version, just normal lips) IMO there are 3 things a guy should be good with; - kissing - oral sex - and with his hands He should also be a good lover, but with casual sex being the way it is these days...I really can't blame two strangers for being trash at it, i don't really count that into the mix, because I believe that requires chemistry, passion and an emotional connection. But with the three things I mentioned, those are relevant in all situations and kissing for me is a sign of romantic and sexual compatibility, and for me has been a sign of good intimacy down the road. They don't need to be an "expert" in kissing, to me kissing isn't just about kissing for the sake of kissing or moving your lips, it's your ability to incorporate feeling and desire, be sensual...just something that moves like a wave between you two in a very natural way. I see women all the time date men that I can't understand for the life of me why they date them...no affection, no sensuality to it, no kissing or poor kissing, no passion...women that don't require those things are definitely incompatible with me.
fitnessfan365 Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 Tongue is great but I feel like lips are often overlooked. I think personally that lip action should make up maybe 3/4 of your facetime. Here, here! Closed mouth kissing with soft lips is extremely sensual and hot. The woman I am seeing now waited to use her tongue for awhile. But when she finally did it was electric. But I like that she wants to French sparingly. The constant feeling of tongues probing can be a bit much. But when you really enjoy regular kissing, and tongues tough from time to time, it's very enjoyable.
jen1447 Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 Tongues should be used like punctuation. Lips are the sentences and paragraphs. I find tongue attacks pretty humorous, to get back to Bopz's original story. Lip weirdness can be weird, but a tongue can feel like a weapon coming at you. I can remember years ago seeing a guy deliberately open his mouth, peel his lips back, stick out his tongue and start darting it at me like some kind of bird pecking around. I actually dodged 1
Erised Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 I've had kissing get better many times as we adapt to each other. The best lover I've been with took time for our kissing styles to mesh (though it was electric when it clicked.) 1
writergal Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 Tongues should be used like punctuation. Lips are the sentences and paragraphs. I find tongue attacks pretty humorous, to get back to Bopz's original story. Lip weirdness can be weird, but a tongue can feel like a weapon coming at you. I can remember years ago seeing a guy deliberately open his mouth, peel his lips back, stick out his tongue and start darting it at me like some kind of bird pecking around. I actually dodged Ha! I agree that the lips are important where kissing is concerned. And I definitely don't like tongue attacks. Especially darting tongues like you describe...eww! 2
Price2Play Posted May 20, 2015 Posted May 20, 2015 Nope, not a deal breaker. These things are learned, and if you're on the teaching end it can actually be quite fun. Oh wow an ex (33) not a good kisser. Maybe she just didn't enjoy making out, I'm a damn good kisser so I know it wasn't me. Ha...She would wiggle her tongue really fast like we were in middle school idk maybe she did that for fun, she was a weirdo. It took some time but we eventually adapted learning each others styles. A latina ex, hands down best kisser, oh boy she had these great full pouty lips too.
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