sirtyner Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 So my ex and I broke up about a few days ago. She's the one who left me and I was sad honestly. However a couple days later we started talking again and decided to just take a break. For the past day and a half we have been texting non stop. At one time she told me she misses me and that she's sorry for everything etc. However I honestly feel like I am getting false hopes because she is saying she doesn't want a relationship right now but wants to focus on the relationship. I texted her saying this "If you absolutely feel there is zero chance of us getting back together I'm going to leave and never come back. If that's the case we can be cool but I probably won't talk to you for months. If you think there is a chance then i will stay talking to you a lot and be friends. " 2
PegNosePete Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 It didn't work out with her new guy, so she's come crawling back to good old Mr. Reliable Puppy Dog Doormat. Don't be that guy. She left you and now she's jerking you around, saying she wants space, a break, time, not a relationship, bla bla bla. Why would you allow her to treat you like that? 2
Ruby65 Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 I texted her saying this "If you absolutely feel there is zero chance of us getting back together I'm going to leave and never come back. If that's the case we can be cool but I probably won't talk to you for months. If you think there is a chance then i will stay talking to you a lot and be friends. " You've given her this ultimatum. Now stick to it. That means, unless she tells you there's a chance of getting back together, you walk away and cut contact. Personally, I think you've put yourself in an awful position. You're basically inviting her to keep you around as a Plan B, holding her hand through this breakup, without promising you anything other than "a chance" of getting back together *maybe someday*. Why sell yourself out for so little? Anyone who really wanted to be with you wouldn't be treating you this way. 1
Toodaloo Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Hellooooo Door Mat. Let me wipe my feet all over you. Can I suggest that you just don't contact her again. It was mean. But not to your ex. It was mean towards yourself. Dude she dumped you and got together with another guy! Leave it! Drop it! Move on! Find someone who thinks you are the bees knees! 1
d0nnivain Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 It wasn't a mean thing to say but it was a dumb thing to say . If you want to reconcile you have to sit down & talk calmly about the issues that broke you apart. If you can't or won't do that there is not hope. You also can't be friends with an EX while on a "break." What are you going to do talk about all the other people you would rather date? 1
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