lionheart153 Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Just Curious on other peoples thoughts. If someone is constantly liking all your instagram pictures, and sends a good morning snapchat sometimes, that doesn't mean anything right? Assuming you and this person were or did or are dating or courting, is this just new angles to the game of dating?
Syberia Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Well, it means they like you, but you already knew that!
PegNosePete Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 My mate does that to me. I seriously hope it means nothing. If you're interested in someone then you should tell them and ask for a date rather than looking for signs written in the "like" patterns.
Author lionheart153 Posted May 19, 2015 Author Posted May 19, 2015 It's nice to hear that, but from only this context yes it looks positive. But if I were to elaborate on the story I feel you would give a different answer.
PegNosePete Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 What's the point asking for advice if you're only going to give us half the story, and think we'd give different advice if you gave more info? What a waste of time. Both yours, and ours. 1
Author lionheart153 Posted May 19, 2015 Author Posted May 19, 2015 What's the point asking for advice if you're only going to give us half the story, and think we'd give different advice if you gave more info? What a waste of time. Both yours, and ours. Well it's not like that I just thought most people would say it means nothing, and then I would put it to rest. I'll summarize: Met girl online We hung out few times, texted alot I may have come on to strong Girl doesn't respond to text anymore She doesn't initiate text But will do the above, like all my pictures on instagram and for the last 2 days sent me a snapchat saying hi or something but no response if I reply back. My brain thinks its odd she likes EVERY one of my instagram as she has plenty of people to follow, hard to pic out mine every time I would assume, and for snap chat maybe she just sends that to all her snap friends at once, certainly doesn't mean it was just for me.
PegNosePete Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Well it's not like that I just thought most people would say it means nothing, and then I would put it to rest. But we did say it means nothing, and you didn't put it to rest. In light of the new information my advice remains the same. If you want to date her then ask her for a date. If not then stop analyzing her "like" behaviour; it means nothing.
Author lionheart153 Posted May 19, 2015 Author Posted May 19, 2015 But we did say it means nothing, and you didn't put it to rest. In light of the new information my advice remains the same. If you want to date her then ask her for a date. If not then stop analyzing her "like" behaviour; it means nothing. Well I felt obligated to respond to you since you pointed it out that I was wasting your time, so I wanted to explain.
d0nnivain Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 It's positive but it's certainly not a foundation for a relationship. I liked an autobody shop to get 5% off my bill; doesn't mean I'm leaving my husband for the mechanic.
Author lionheart153 Posted May 19, 2015 Author Posted May 19, 2015 It's positive but it's certainly not a foundation for a relationship. I liked an autobody shop to get 5% off my bill; doesn't mean I'm leaving my husband for the mechanic. Oh sorry, I'm not asking if it is a foundation for a relationship, more like if this is a sign she wants me to contact her. I guess that may have come off as confusing. Like I said, its been weird with me and her lately, haven't talked as much, and I've been told not to msg her and wait for her to come to me. Does that count as her trying to get my attention??
d0nnivain Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 yes it counts as her trying to get your attention. Now talk to the lady by more then liking her crap on social media.
misspond Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Oh sorry, I'm not asking if it is a foundation for a relationship, more like if this is a sign she wants me to contact her. I guess that may have come off as confusing. Like I said, its been weird with me and her lately, haven't talked as much, and I've been told not to msg her and wait for her to come to me. Does that count as her trying to get my attention?? *Liking* pictures etc is a way for some people who find it difficult to connect with others in real life to *connect*. Sometimes people who act in this way are looking for validation in ways that mean they don't have to actually put themselves out there in a much more real and vulnerable way, which makes it harder for those of us who are willing to do so in real life. Let her go, do all of the deleting/blocking on social media stuff (because trust me, it's the best way to stop thinking about them) and get yourself ready to meet someone who is willing to be as real as you are.
Author lionheart153 Posted May 19, 2015 Author Posted May 19, 2015 *Liking* pictures etc is a way for some people who find it difficult to connect with others in real life to *connect*. Sometimes people who act in this way are looking for validation in ways that mean they don't have to actually put themselves out there in a much more real and vulnerable way, which makes it harder for those of us who are willing to do so in real life. Let her go, do all of the deleting/blocking on social media stuff (because trust me, it's the best way to stop thinking about them) and get yourself ready to meet someone who is willing to be as real as you are. Well, that certainly makes sense as she seems to have quite low self-esteem of herself. I took the advice and messaged her again, if she responds, I'll ask her out again, if not, I guess it is time to call it quits.
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