silverliningplaybook Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Today is my birthday and I feel so alone, I woke up depressed and I want to cry. I really want to contact my ex but I know it's a bad idea. Should I wait until the end of the day to send him a closure email, or should I keep on with the NC. How do I get through today??
PegNosePete Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Happy birthday! Do not break NC. Do not send a "closure email" (what does that even mean anyway). If he sends you anything, delete and ignore it. Any break of NC will make you feel worse because you will not get a reply and you will be hurt. If you're lonely then call your friends and family, you know, people who actually CARE about you.
Toodaloo Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Happy Birthday to yoooo!!! Do NOT call your ex. It will make you look like an idiot. Call your friends. GO and make today one to remember for all the right reasons.
aloneinaz Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 As everyone will tell you, there is ZERO value in contacting your ex, especially on your B-day. He'll still think your pathetic and pouting for him which will boast his ego further.. Enjoy your b-day and move on past this person to someone who does want you.
Moley87 Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Firstly HAPPY BIRTHDAY ! Secondly this is your day not your ex's birthday so why spoil your day for them? Keep the NC is about you remember and all the hard work will be wasted, maybe give a friend a call and go out celebrate your day . Your ex is now a past memory , make a new memory and that starts with enjoying your bday !
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