HeartbrokenNewbie Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Why do guys (& girls maybe?) start chatting to someone on OLD & then just disappear... this happens so often & it's starting to get me down & it's even worse because i can see they have been online & ignored me when they started chatting to me!... do they just get a better offer? I usually strike them off at that point but I'm half tempted to say something the next time! x
Zippy2000 Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Oh, please dont feel down and Im sorry about your experience but this is happening to me too so youre not alone. Its hard to gauge but sometimes people on OLD are like kids in a sweet shop. They always want to "taste" the next best sweet. You could continue to try asking a little more questions to show interest or tell them something new thats happening. Even flirt a little. I find conversations online are difficult to maintain. Women for me talk to me for a while but they then end up ignoring me. I believe they find someone they are attracted to more. Howver be persistant and if you havent heard I d try to engage about 2 times and if no reply I d leave the ball in their half. 1
Author HeartbrokenNewbie Posted May 19, 2015 Author Posted May 19, 2015 I think u are probably right.. too much choice! It can happen at any time so I'm pretty sure it's not anything I'm saying... sometimes a few days/weeks later they get back in touch but I've seen how many times they have been online since & that just makes me feel like a consolation so it's ruined it for me by then so I blank them x
Gaeta Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 They didn't like something you said, or thought you were boring, or felt you replied too slow, or too short. What ever it is it's a lack of connection and it's better to not continue. Happens to everyone online not just you.
loveweary11 Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Why do guys (& girls maybe?) start chatting to someone on OLD & then just disappear... this happens so often & it's starting to get me down & it's even worse because i can see they have been online & ignored me when they started chatting to me!... do they just get a better offer? I usually strike them off at that point but I'm half tempted to say something the next time! x Because there are lots of girls to talk to and some of us prefer to focus on one (ot two tops) at a time. We pick the one we feel is the most compatible. m
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