accident_prone Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 with a new girl, at any point, should i increase my investment or should i always just mirror and match hers? communication, asking to see her, etc. i've "known" her for about a year and haven't seen or talked to her in months but she was only just recently single and sought me out so i took that as a good sign. asked her out immediately and that was a week ago. since then we have gotten together three times. two were planned dates and one in between was sporadic moment of opportunity. so far so good. she seems eager to go out and we talk a little in between. now, i'm certainly not falling into a false sense of security as this is very new, but i am having a good time. so i have pretty much just mirrored and matched her with things and read her cues and body language when in person. should i just continue on this course or at any point should i start to build on this? thanks in advance to anyone who replies or advises!
amaysngrace Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 You can show extra interest first before she does to see if she'll meet you there. This way you set the pace too rather than waiting around for her to make a move. Be somebody who knows how to make things happen. 1
Author accident_prone Posted May 19, 2015 Author Posted May 19, 2015 thanks! yes, i have certainly been leading the interactions and conversation but at the same time it has been very light. we dont talk all day or anything like that. but every time we do, i make sure to plan a date. my question can be better served by giving an example: like when i ask her when shes free, she lists every single day she has. one of those works for me and i make a plan. then later on she mentions maybe getting together the following night, additionally. so while this sounds great, i'm not trying to overdo it, especially being that she just got out of a relationship. cause i know how that goes, on both ends.
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