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Is she actually interested? (HUGE mixed signals)


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Hi everyone, thanks to anyone in advance who takes the time to read this and sends me some feedback!

*If it helps, I'm 20 and she's 19.

 

Last week on tinder I met a cute girl who seemed sweet, funny and we had similar interests. We chatted back and forth for a couple hours until I went to bed. Good start right?

 

The next 2 days became like a game of "20 Questions", I would ask her questions to try and start a convo and she would wait like 6 hours and give somewhat boring replies in return. I can take a hint, she's just not interested. So I stop messaging her.

 

The next day she sends me a message, tries to start a convo but again takes forever responding. I'm not replying immediately, but within 10-15 minutes, while her responses are like 4-6 hours apart. I relent and give her my number, saying she can text me if she wants to chat sometime and left the ball in her court. I figured if she's SERIOUSLY interested at all, she'll text me.

 

A few hours later, she texts me. I again try to start a conversation with her, but again she takes awhile to respond, and after literally a couple messages she stops replying.

 

I can honestly say I'm dumbfounded, she's going out of her way to try and talk to me, but with each opportunity she just bails on the convo. I really want to try and set up a time to actually meet her but I'm not sure if she has any interest.

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