cottom Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 I dont get it, I was single until i was 17 and never had a real issue with it. I didnt kiss a girl till 16. My first gf was one that everyone i speak to goes on about because of her reputation as being stunning. I broke up with her and had mates and family around me and got a new girl straight away fine. I broke up with that one and was at university, i lived with family and saw mates everyday and then 5 months later i got another gf. I then got a job 100 miles away, i would come back weekends but this relationship took that time i was home, but i was happy doing that. At that point my friends got new friendship groups and i was left out of everything, they got new gfs, they got kids and everything and then i broke up with this girl. I found a new gf that same day we broke up but was maybe a little quick, so we broke up aswell. After rekindling with mates i got approached by another girl i started seeing though i was living 100 miles away too, though it was with flat mates. And having a girl to come home to every weekend. We stopped speaking though, i moved jobs back home but in my own apartment. I have been here for 5 months now and it has just made me so depressed it is unreal. My old mates that stayed are all waste of space drug addicts now, the mates that left started their own lives elsewhere, i want to meet a girl but my confidence is getting reduced, its being the longest ever time without being with a girl, i have nothing to come home to on the weekends and spend 90% of my time attempting to make friends in the gym because my friends are either in families, drugged up or with new mates. I dont know why lately this sudden stint at being single hit me so hard, is it because i now live back home and realised what i came back for is all gone? Is it the fact that i know that i want to meet a girl but how can i tell them i will be gone 150 miles away in 2 months? Is it because i am failing on dates etc, i cant seem to attract girls like i used to when younger? I dont understand anything anymore, my job takes me to stints all over the country for 4-6 months at a time, i cant settle with a relationship, i cant settle with mates, i cant settle with a house, i cant do anything anymore and it is really effecting me.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 Not sure why you listed your ages of kissing/being single, that's actually pretty normal for the most part. Some people on here are in their mid 20s and still working on that Being single can be lonely, and people generally don't like feeling lonely.
GoBlue Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Have you considered changing jobs? You don't have to stay in something that's producing so much heartache for you. I think that you probably need to take another look at how you view women. They are not throw-away objects that come and go just for your own happiness. Maintaining long distance relationships isn't easy even in the best of circumstances. Hope things turn around for you. Be blessed!
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