MM acted like he wanted to get caught and did...now what? Is the MM profile?

[notrust]

Originally posted by Puppet

well, I had 7 year relationship with MM, and I was dumped as fast as a hot potato and he went groveling back to wife.

He only contacted me after to ensure I back up his lies to her.

Initially he told her the affair was just a few months!

 

Anyways, wife stalked me and in the heat of confrontation I told her the truth. She turned to him and asked, he lied to her face. Unbelievable.

 

He is not the man I thought he was. Now I'm picking up the pieces and trying to make sense of it all.

 

I don't believe he thinks anything good of me. The affair was an illusion. One day he loves me.... next day...I'm a nothing.

 

BUT......he is the nothing, and at least we got to see the truth. Poor wifey is still being lied to. What unites then is their anger at me. So, I'm stepping out the picture.

 

If you're with a MM....run....run away as fast as you can.....

 

Puppet - How long ago did your relationship end? I am 7 weeks out of mine and I see the same things you see. He is not the man that he tried so hard to make me believe he was. My relationship was 5 years and I too was dumped faster than you could blink an eye once his wife found out.

 

I live in a very small town and the rumors are flying. I haven't personally talked to MM or W since the day it was revealed, but the things that I have heard are lies. I personally think MM is keeping W away from me at all costs, because our stories will not match.

 

They are leaving me alone but are attacking people that support me. I finally came to the same conclusion that you did. They are united in their anger towards me. The only thing that I can't figure out is why MM is angry at me. I did nothing but walk away from my home and husband and wait for him for 5 years. I was devoted to him and he knows that, but to save his @ss, he has turned the whole thing into something ugly and blamed me for all of it.

 

I try at all costs to avoid them, because I am afraid that I will say something that will end up causing the W more pain and regardless of how it looks, I never set out to cause her or anyone else pain, but that is exactly what happened. My children, parents, friends and boss have all taken crap because of my actions. There is no easier way to see how wrong you were when you see the people you love suffering because of you.

 

LESSON LEARNED!!! I am only sorry that it took 5 years of my life and the anguish of hurting so many people to make me see it.

[Puppet]

No trust

 

PM for you

[MistressD]

Puppet...

 

How long ago did you break it off?

[Puppet]

I broke it off 2 months ago.

His wife found out.

Although he did at first try to keep me on hold...whilst lieing to his wife.

He wanted me to lie to her too. But nope....no more.

 

So, it's n/c.