bluebunnies Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 I have known this guy for a while, he does not live that far from me. We go to the same church. We are both extremely shy people. A few weeks a go he had started to avoid me. He recently started going out of his way to not be around me. Our families talk to each other all the time it is just him that seems to have a problem with me I guess. My question is why did he start avoiding me?
Clarence_Boddicker Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 Did you do anything that he might have interpreted as rejecting him in any way? Did you do anything that he might have interpreted as showing another guy affection? Did your parents talk to his parents about you? People often see things that don't exist, when it comes to emotional things like dating. Why not ask him up front about it? You could also ask him if he likes you, as you obviously like him.
Author bluebunnies Posted May 18, 2015 Author Posted May 18, 2015 I don't think I did anything that could have been interpreted as me rejecting him. Most of the other guys in the class are all younger then us. There are only three of us that are the same age. We are both 21 in the youth class because there are not to many people. All the others a still in high school. My mother has talked to his parents about me. His father is the assistant pastor. I know both of his grandmothers and the both love me. I don't think that he has ever had a girlfriend before, unless he was real secretive about it. I would ask him, but it is hard to even be in the same room with him for five minutes. He has started coming late and leaving as soon as he can. He practically runs away when he sees me.
alphamale Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 I have known this guy for a while, he does not live that far from me. We go to the same church. We are both extremely shy people. A few weeks a go he had started to avoid me. He recently started going out of his way to not be around me. Our families talk to each other all the time it is just him that seems to have a problem with me I guess. My question is why did he start avoiding me? maybe he is schizophrenic or has some other psychiatric malady?
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