MayRoo Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 (edited) Hey guys, so there's this girl I have a chemistry with from a couple of years ago and we have just started talking again and I told her how much I like her. After I tell her this she says to me "before we try a date I want you to get to know the new me, the real me" as we haven't spoken in a couple of years and wants me to ask her questions to get to know her. She says she has missed me a lot and wants me back in her life. The thing is I'm not really sure what kinds of things to ask her and I tried googling this, but that hasn't really help as they all seem really generic and lame. I'm looking for 'deep' sort of questions. To be honest I'm not sure, but any help would be amazing. Thank you! [EDIT: Hope this is the right place to post.] Edited May 18, 2015 by MayRoo Added text
d0nnivain Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 How old are you? This will color my answer. For now just talk to her. Ask her opinion on things. 1
PegNosePete Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Sounds like a sh## test. My response would probably be: "I'd like to get to know the new you in person rather than pinging messages backwards and forwards. Are you free for coffee this weekend?" 1
d0nnivain Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 At 24 it's BS. The whole point of dating is to get to know somebody. If she won't go on a date with you to accomplish this, she's yanking your chain for some reason. If you two were still in high school, I would be been more accepting of her reluctance & immature attitude. 1
Syberia Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 At 24 it's BS. The whole point of dating is to get to know somebody. If she won't go on a date with you to accomplish this, she's yanking your chain for some reason. If you two were still in high school, I would be been more accepting of her reluctance & immature attitude. Yeah, the purpose of dating is to get to know "the real her." 1
Satu Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 "before we try a date I want you to get to know the new me, the real me" I wouldn't bother. She wants attention, but isn't willing to have a date = time wasting.
preraph Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 She knows you just have a crush on her and that you don't even know her -- and you so don't care to know her that you can't even think of what to talk to her about except that you have a crush on her and probably want to make out.
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