confused83 Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 Right i am just wondering what people would do in a situation like the one below. Basically theres a girl, she is fantastic in every way and her wants are exactly the same as yours in life, everything is amazing except... the sex. its always missionary and you on top, she is reluctant to try anything new and when is happy to get oral but when you want it back she doesnt like it so wont, when she does finally do it its for 30 seconds and you already know she doesnt like it so the thrill is completly gone. The other girl is fantastic in bed but... doesnt want anything much that you want, no kids in future etc and you find yourself slightly bored when its not in the bedroom. Do you choose girl A or girl B or... go with option C and leave?
TaraMaiden2 Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 Option C. If you're expecting either one to mellow, come round, behave more the way you'd like over time.... you've got a long wait coming. This is glaring incompatibility, with each girl. Cut, run, have your fun, but when you meet your ideal hun, settle down, and it's all done.
PegNosePete Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 What would I do? I would not get into the situation where I am having sex with multiple people in the first place. Don't treat it like a choice between the 2 of them. Assess each relationship individually, on its own merits. Do you want to stay with A, yes or no. Do you want to stay with B, yes or no. It sounds like both are "no" for you, so that would mean option C. 3
Toodaloo Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 I would talk to A and try to find out why she is as hesitant as she is and what I could do to make her feel more comfortable and enjoy sex more. Sounds like she is very uncomfortable with sex in general. i couldn't stay with her if sex were going to be like that all the time. It would drive me insane... B. I am not even sure why I would be sleeping with her in the first place. Option C sounds best though and just go find someone that I don't treat as an option...
Satu Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 If you don't know which one you want to be with, you don't deserve either.
Gary S Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 Some married men don't even get sex at all from their wives. Be thankful for what you have. The grass is not greener on the other side. What men want most in a relationship is to be comfortable.
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