Miss Clavel Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 are they together, did they get married? does anyone in their right mind think all of it was worth it?
Lizrd3000 Posted May 21, 2015 Posted May 21, 2015 Love is a gamble, eventually, when time passes, the experience was worth it because you've learned from it. If you've got kids, then yes, it was worth it. Kids are lovely aren't they?
Author Miss Clavel Posted June 8, 2015 Author Posted June 8, 2015 Not sure even the OP does....?! what are you unsure about? i asked the question, "was it the end" in the divorce section. as in, did anyone get back with their ex after the divorce or was it the end? did the cheaters end up together?
Author Miss Clavel Posted June 8, 2015 Author Posted June 8, 2015 Love is a gamble, eventually, when time passes, the experience was worth it because you've learned from it. If you've got kids, then yes, it was worth it. Kids are lovely aren't they? yes, i adore them. however, sometimes i get a glimpse of his less then admirable traits, in my oldest. sigh
Damia Posted June 8, 2015 Posted June 8, 2015 My x husband is still with his affair partner 4 1/2 years later. No idea if they are still " madly in love"
TaraMaiden2 Posted June 8, 2015 Posted June 8, 2015 what are you unsure about? i asked the question, "was it the end" in the divorce section. as in, did anyone get back with their ex after the divorce or was it the end? did the cheaters end up together? I'm sorry, I really didn't see that clarification in the original question. Now you put it like that, it makes a whole more sense.... Thanks. Yes. Yes. 1
unrequitedluv Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 guess no one will know and have an answer to it. Divorce doesnt mean the end. I believe reconcile if fated to be. Cheaters may not always end up happily together. I believe in karma. Years down the road what we receive they will get it back years down their road. 1
No Limit Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 After his A my father went down a very steep downward spiral. If he was living under a bridge, it wouldn't come as a surprise. No & no. 1
Author Miss Clavel Posted February 22, 2016 Author Posted February 22, 2016 two years november. every day. most songs. NC
LifesontheUp Posted February 22, 2016 Posted February 22, 2016 Q - are they together, did they get married? A - not together. She married someone else and true to form has cheated on him too Q - does anyone in their right mind think all of it was worth it? A - I fully believe the pain I went through was worth it. I divorced him and got remarried and now have a beautiful son I see the xH from time to time in work and he is still on his own and still believes I will be back
Tread Carefully Posted February 22, 2016 Posted February 22, 2016 We did not get back together after the divorce. Absolutely will not happen. And he didn't end up with his AP either. We all live in different states going on 4 years now. Was the divorce worth it? Most definitely! Watching my children flourish and follow their dreams after taking them out of a toxic situation is worth every second of betrayal and pain I went through. I made sure it was worth it for myself too. I focused on IC and dealing with all the things that were my fault in the breakdown of my marriage. Focused on becoming a better person, woman, friend and eventually someones partner. I didn't let myself start dating until I felt much healthier on the inside, which took a couple years. Now I feel better equipped to be the best partner I can be, what it is I truly want in a relationship, how to set boundries and to not settle until I find it. Totally worth it. 1
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