livelifeshopping Posted May 18, 2015 Share Posted May 18, 2015 (edited) There is a guy I work with that has been my close friend foryears, recently we hooked up for a night. He told me that he was crazy about me and always had been. He told me that he loved me and I wasbeautiful and he wanted me so bad. We made out for hours but did not have sex,he kept repeating these words to me and I felt the passion in his kisses. I had feelings for him before that but I thought it was onlyas a friend, after that night I can’t stop thinking about him and feel so confusedabout my feelings. The problem is I am already in a relationship. I tried to talk to him about the night but he freaked out and said “you have a man”, which he has always known I do? Things between us have changed dramatically, we can barely look at each other and talking is strained. What upsets me most is our friendship is gone and can never be replaced and I adored him as a friend for so long. I work with him in different departments but see him a few times a day. I do feel that he care for me but is guarded and doesn’twant to get hurt. I am very confused about his feelings towards me. The way he kissed me and the things he said, I feel like he cares deeply for me, I still find him staring at me when he thinks I'm not looking. But why would he avoid me and treat me badly unless he didn’t like me at all? I don't think I want a relationship from him, I just can't stop thinking about him. I really need to know how he feels about me? Edited May 18, 2015 by livelifeshopping spelling Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted May 18, 2015 Share Posted May 18, 2015 Are you saying he didn't know you had a BF, or that he felt bad about making out after because you have a BF? Either way it seems like your BF is the issue, and you can't really blame him for that. Why don't you just ask him what the deal is? Also, is it safe to say you don't value your relationship with your BF very much? Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted May 18, 2015 Share Posted May 18, 2015 I really need to know how he feels about me? Talk it over with your boyfriend, he might have some useful advice for you. Link to post Share on other sites
La.Primavera Posted May 18, 2015 Share Posted May 18, 2015 Now he realizes you are the type that cheats on her boyfriend so he thinks if she can do it to him, she can do it to me. The trust is gone. That is the most logical explanation. Link to post Share on other sites
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