zachsack Posted May 17, 2015 Posted May 17, 2015 So after my gf practically ignored me or me ignoring her (or didn't have a reason to text back since my text wasn't ezactly answerable) she suddenly texts a random unrelated text. Here's how it went: Me: Morning babe Her: morning. *blah blah* Me: (being late to respond) sorry I couldn't get to you, I was mowing the lawn. (Appx. 28 hours later) Her: have you ever been to the strawberry farm? Wtf? That almost sounds like a excuse to text me first, or something. What does it mean?
ExpatInItaly Posted May 17, 2015 Posted May 17, 2015 So after my gf practically ignored me or me ignoring her (or didn't have a reason to text back since my text wasn't ezactly answerable) she suddenly texts a random unrelated text. Here's how it went: Me: Morning babe Her: morning. *blah blah* Me: (being late to respond) sorry I couldn't get to you, I was mowing the lawn. (Appx. 28 hours later) Her: have you ever been to the strawberry farm? Wtf? That almost sounds like a excuse to text me first, or something. What does it mean? Do you guys normally go so long without communicating? How long have you been together? Your last message to her wasn't anything that needed a response. So yes, I would say she was looking for a way to connect with you. I don't get why this is distressing to you or why you assume there's a hidden meaning. 1
j_mysterio Posted May 17, 2015 Posted May 17, 2015 Here's an idea... Communicate properly with your gf, even if it means swallowing your pride. If there's no reason to be ignoring eachother then why prolong it?
Author zachsack Posted May 17, 2015 Author Posted May 17, 2015 Do you guys normally go so long without communicating? How long have you been together? Your last message to her wasn't anything that needed a response. So yes, I would say she was looking for a way to connect with you. I don't get why this is distressing to you or why you assume there's a hidden meaning. we do more of our communication in person. She also had a ton of stuff to do during the weekend so... We've been together for 4 weeks now
caringsister Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 (edited) So after my gf practically ignored me or me ignoring her (or didn't have a reason to text back since my text wasn't ezactly answerable) she suddenly texts a random unrelated text. Here's how it went: Me: Morning babe Her: morning. *blah blah* Me: (being late to respond) sorry I couldn't get to you, I was mowing the lawn. (Appx. 28 hours later) Her: have you ever been to the strawberry farm? Wtf? That almost sounds like a excuse to text me first, or something. What does it mean? Maybe your last text didn't go through? It's very possible. I've had that happen to me as well as to people I've text. Did you respond to her question about the strawberry farm? Edited May 18, 2015 by caringsister
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