Orije Posted May 17, 2015 Posted May 17, 2015 Hello Loveshack! It has been awhile and to tell you the truth im in a wonderful relationship right now! She is 18 and I am 20. She is wonderful, smart beautiful and sweet. We have been together for a month now. This isn't really about us, but a question she asked me today while we were cuddling and i was wondering what is the best answer? I was talking about one of her friends who is a junior in high school and how she was mad at this guy who was ignoring her. She is obsessed with him because he took her first kiss, she likes him but he doesnt like her. So then she asks me how would i feel only about kissing for now and nothing else? I told her to be honest I'm not sure because we already had sex after waiting a bit and it was wonderful. I like the sex with her and to just only be able to kiss would frustrate me. She said i could go masturbate if i wanted to be sexual and i said it wasn't the same. I knew she was joking, but the question was stuck in my head the whole night. I wanted to be nice and say sure I can deal without sex, but another part of me likes it. She asked if i would break up with her if she wouldn't have sex with me. I said no i wouldn't because i really like her. Im just stricken on the thought of it. Thanks for reading and share your advice/opinions!
La.Primavera Posted May 17, 2015 Posted May 17, 2015 Even as a joke, I'm not sure how one topic led to another. I would have asked her why she was asking the question. Is she having doubts about it for some reason? Does she enjoy it or want to try something different? Younger women who aren't that experienced may find it hard to express what they want or even know what they like so it might be worth exploring the reason she brought it up. However, if it's only a joke then you shouldn't feel obligated to answer.
madjac74 Posted May 17, 2015 Posted May 17, 2015 Try being married for awhile then you will pray she falls asleep so you can go masturbate. It's a funny world. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted May 17, 2015 Posted May 17, 2015 I don't think it was a joke. To me, it sounds like she wasn't ready to have sex yet and she's trying to feel you out to see if she can go back to only kissing. You say you waited a while, but you've only been together a month. She might be feeling things moved too fast. You should ask her why she brought it up.
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