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[Lady #1]

So met another lady online. She is a grad student so a bit busy.

 

We exchanged numbers but she gave me her google voice number saying she's not ready to give out her real number to strangers. Which is fine.

 

She said she's had several creepers bugging her in the past.

 

So I said I'd like to give her some space out of respect and kind gesture.

 

But she says she doesn't need space from me and didn't mean to sound like she needs one. We're set to meet up soon.

 

This means she is interested in talking a bit with me?

 

 

[Lady #2]

Ok and this is a different lady. We exchanged #s and tentatively set out to meet in the future. (due to her unknown hectic schedule, whether true or not either way).

 

She is super busy with 2 part-time jobs and school. And her mom got injured and just got out of hospital.

 

Shall I just casually talk until she has time? or just disappear?

 

I'm the worst of all guys who don't get any hints or have ideas, lol.

Edited by unagedtiger
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online dating is really hard for most guys. i have a friend that went through so many flakes and stood up for a lot of dates. he kept at and finally met a girl and have have been together 8 months!

 

i got an online dating profile and chatted with a few guys that disappeared when i didn't want to give my number out. then one guy was insistent on just talking and skipping the chat thing. we talked for a couple hours, went out and still dating!

 

so yeah one date from online dating and that was it for me... deactivate lol. i asked him what was it about me, he sad "you responded" wow! it's tough out there.

 

but he sad it was really hard to get anyone to talk. if a girl wants to go out she won't be so difficult. i think a lot of people who d online dating are either very picky and waiting for someone that fits all the specs or don't really want to go on actual dates.

 

keep at it. try to get to the phone call as soon as you can, it's the only way to see if you have actual chemistry.

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