Under The Radar Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 Since joining Ok Cupid in the past week I've had a few inquiries from women whose profiles mention they are "mostly monogamous".
smackie9 Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 it's either you are or you are not monogamous, there is no "mostly" I guess you could just ask them.
katiegrl Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 Since joining Ok Cupid in the past week I've had a few inquiries from women whose profiles mention they are "mostly monogamous". Do they write that spontaneously... or is it a box they click on indicating their relationship style? I am not familiar with Ok Cupid.
Weezy1973 Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 I'd guess it means that when they're in a committed relationship they're monogamous, and when they're casually dating they're not. 1
todreaminblue Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 Since joining Ok Cupid in the past week I've had a few inquiries from women whose profiles mention they are "mostly monogamous". means they dont want to say they are actually hornbags......and that they participate in multiple dating.....i dont know why they would say that because its either you arent or you are monogomous.....there's no in between ...or...no mostly.....deb
Author Under The Radar Posted May 16, 2015 Author Posted May 16, 2015 You have the option of putting strictly monogamous, mostly monogamous, or non monogamous.
katiegrl Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 You have the option of putting strictly monogamous, mostly monogamous, or non monogamous. That's what I suspected. I am thinking they put *mostly* instead of *strictly* to indicate, until they become exclusive with a guy, they're free to meet/have sex with others (as is the guy) ....but once they become exclusive, they are 100% monogomous. 2
ASG Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 That's what I suspected. I am thinking they put *mostly* instead of *strictly* to indicate, until they become exclusive with a guy, they're free to meet/have sex with others (as is the guy) ....but once they become exclusive, they are 100% monogomous. That's what I took it to mean and that's what I have on my profile. 1
Author Under The Radar Posted May 16, 2015 Author Posted May 16, 2015 Thanks all for clearing that up ...... my OLD dating IQ is in the early stages of development
Frank2thepoint Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 They're monogamous with the person they choose to be. The rest are just a booty call. 1
neowulf Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 I'd read that as; "Ideally I'd like to be in a monogamous relationship, but I have had the occasional "one night stand" here and there" 1
MissBee Posted May 17, 2015 Posted May 17, 2015 Since joining Ok Cupid in the past week I've had a few inquiries from women whose profiles mention they are "mostly monogamous". I haven't the foggiest idea but when I see a man with that I'm automatically suspicious.
candie13 Posted May 17, 2015 Posted May 17, 2015 that's sooooo funny, first time I hear about this "mostly monogamous". Makes me think of "a little bit pregnant", hahaha 2
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