TheMoreYouKnow Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 Hello all, Figured I would finally do this.. Just went through a breakup about 6 weeks ago and I gotta say, it has gotten so much better. I was reading a lot of people's stories and advice and experiences and it has ABSOLUTELY helped me. I actually decided to create an account on here to continue to recover, interact with others, and now even offer some of my insight on the healing process. Breakups suck. They do. Ex broke up with me after 7 months saying she was confused and didn't know what she wanted. I figured it was a stage, but now i know better. This one hit me like a brick wall, and soon after that, one of my best friends passed away. For the first time in my life I hit an all time low and became super depressed, but it has slowly improved. I didn't know about NC, or anything for that sense. I kind of just experienced my own things and hoped for the best, however it didn't always work. Now it's all about me. Working on myself, getting back to who I was. There are so many users here that have such great advice, and every time I see their names on a thread, I automatically know that it's going to be a good dose of wisdom and solid advice. To those going through a breakup, listen to this advice. These guys know their stuff. Doesn't seem reasonable at the time, but when I look back now at day 1, it's so clear. Thanks to every single user here. This is a terrific community, where everyone is in this together and will never make you feel alone. Looking forward to more learning and growing. 1
aloneinaz Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 Hey, Good first post as you let the freshly dumped know they can and should expect to feel better in the near future. I have to agree with you. This site was helpful to me a couple of years ago when my heart was ripped from my body. NC was the best thing EVER.. As soon as the freshly dumped realize that the dumper told them they don't want them around anymore and say F-them, I'll find someone who does, the sooner they will fell better.
SLee Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 I'm sorry that you had go through the pain of a breakup and the loss of your friend. However, good for you that you're doing better than initially at the break up. It's inspiring for people who are still at the center of the storm. I look forward to seeing more of your postings on here!
darkbloom Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 I also want to say thanks to the users that have helped me through. Especially the long time users that have stuck around. Satu, Simon phoenix, throatiki, bc1980, organized chaos, etc.
Author TheMoreYouKnow Posted May 16, 2015 Author Posted May 16, 2015 Hey, Good first post as you let the freshly dumped know they can and should expect to feel better in the near future. I have to agree with you. This site was helpful to me a couple of years ago when my heart was ripped from my body. NC was the best thing EVER.. As soon as the freshly dumped realize that the dumper told them they don't want them around anymore and say F-them, I'll find someone who does, the sooner they will fell better. Yeah it's crazy.. our vision gets so cloudy as soon as we are broken up with, and as more time passes you start realizing how things really are. I gave her everything I could. Unconditional love, support in everything, and i tried my best to keep her happy. However it wasn't meant to be. Such is life. 1
Author TheMoreYouKnow Posted May 16, 2015 Author Posted May 16, 2015 I'm sorry that you had go through the pain of a breakup and the loss of your friend. However, good for you that you're doing better than initially at the break up. It's inspiring for people who are still at the center of the storm. I look forward to seeing more of your postings on here! Thank you for the kind words. It was certainly a rough moment, however I look back at it now and it's crazy how much it has helped me grow. Nothing but good vibes from now on!
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