cottom Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 I think she wants the personal trainers from the gym, theres two of them but i started putting two and two together and seeing how they my theory fits. She said that the PT invited her out with his mate, his mate has a gf so its obvious what 2 single people do when the 3rd wheel has a gf. She didnt go out that night, but then me and her went on a date sort of and I mentioned how i saw the PT in this club and she said she was their aswell that night with him. She was shocked when i revealed this PT is only 19 though which makes me think that she doesnt know him that well, but then last night we was going out as a gym lot and she said "Tony said hes not coming" so she is texting him too. Then last night i am sure she was texting him while she was at the pub with all our gym lot and laughing at her phone as she got texts off him. Then theres the other PT which i am sure she does all his classes because she likes him. I noticed on facebook that she did a spin class snd was tagged in his photo in the class then i realised there is a spin class every day but she only does his class, then the abs class she will always do his abs class but seems to not do other PTs abs classes, then she does this guys dog training class and tags him on facebook how tired she is after his class but doesnt ever post anything else on facebook. So i cant tell if its her being friendly with them but she seems to pay a lot more attention to them then anyone else. How do i make her beg for me, like i want her to want me and want to spend time with me rather than them, how do you get that?
Dallers Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 Simply, you cannot make a girl want you if she wants someone else. It is a common mistake of most men that they think they can change a girls mind by giving her attention or making her see that they are better than the person she pursues but it does not work like that. The more you pursue the more you push her away. You have to let her decide all on her own. Make your intention very clear, precise and direct and then see what her response is. By the sound of it you have already been dwelling on this for a while so you have allowed others the chance to entice her and given her more time to seek out another. You do not wait, you approach and make it very clear what you want. Do so, then move on. Do not hang around waiting for her to change her mind because she wont because of you, if she changes her mind it is of her own accord.
phineas Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 What Dallers said. If a woman you have feels for is not interested you need to step back & pursue other women. Do not agree to be friends with her either. Women that know a guy wants them but wants to be friends with them should know better & I believe do but like the free attention. They will end up hurting those guys at best & using them at worst even if they don't start out meaning too.
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